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Stop your moaning and bitching...it's unattractive.

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April 22, 2015
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Title Stop your moaning and bitching...it's unattractive.
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Upvotes 30
Comments 25
Date April 22, 2015 5:43 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/33hxx0/stop_your_moaning_and_bitchingits_unattractive/
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[–]camelCasettes12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I've got a friend who is pretty damn ugly. But he acts like he's the hottest thing around and it really works for him.

I used to model, which admittedly gets me pretty far, but his batting average is a lot higher than mine simply because he does not give a fuck.

No matter what your disadvantages are, it's your insecurities about them which holds you back more than anything else.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Exactly my point, the insecurities one carries are like pussy repellent. Even if you think you're not showing them, you are. Best to come to terms and own them.

[–]ChinaManCan2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And yet this is the plight of the beta male. They are too consumed with what they are not that they will never have a chance at seeing what they have going for them, as little as it may be.

[–]lewd_crude_dude-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

but his batting average is a lot higher than mine simply because he does not give a fuck.

I'm sure he gives some kind of fuck. I'm sure he showers, brushes his teeth, etc.

[–]cock_pussy_up5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Who ever said looks were everything? Maybe if you're a gay dude, but not if you like to have sex with women. Men care way more about looks than women do.

Why is Jay-Z the one fucking Beyoncé instead of some 18 yo pretty boy aspiring model who works as a barista at Starbucks? Why does Donald Trump marry a different model every decade?

[–]1nzgs0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Marrying those women kinda defeats the point of having high SMV. You can bet that the women marrying Trump are not sexually exclusive with him, whatever people are led to believe.

[–]argentinean3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This. Usually people bring the top 1% examples of ugly guys fucking top bitches (Jaz Z, Donald Trump). But it happens at all levels of guys. I have a friend who is ugly, but super confident, dresses pretty fucking well, and has great game. And a relatively reasonable career. He has great success with women.

[–]1whatsazipper7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Male insecurity is the strongest pussy repellant there is.

[–]topredhat5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And the biggest cock blocker.

[–]silvertongue35 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I love this post. I was everything you described. Then I started doing something about it. I'm still in the process of doing something about it, but I've already started and my frame is that I'm not going to stop, it's a lifelong process. There is no true definable end.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Keep it up, I spent a long time as everything I just described.

[–]mark-aurelius1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Very good post, although I'm sure a lot of readers are not open to the language. Something my friends and I always said to each other, sometimes in a joking way, sometimes not, was to "not be a bitch". This post fits really well into that. Reminds me of the drill sergeant from full metal jacket.

[–]mickeymouseoutfit 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Excellent post all around, OP. But it's the edit that's pure gold here.

"Sticks and stones" was the operative meme back in the day but that answer has been forgotten in the politically correct modern world of "cyber-bullying," trigger warnings and perpetual butthurt. But it also seems to me that the keyboard warriors who are sooooo tough behind the anonymity of the internet are the first ones to get their man panties in a bunch when they have to read something they don't like.

[–]NorthMike 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice. I like when people speak truth. I like seeing the bitchboys (half of Reddit) downvote as they do whenever they do not like being told how it is. Have an upvote wise Sir.

[–]benittybop 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The motif and point of your post is good but you come across as a real asshole, maybe the kind that women love but shit tier friend material if you act like this all the time.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

I have real friends who can handle this shit, we speak like this to one another often...All the beta friends dipped the fuck out and stopped contacting me when I started owning my insecurities, holding my frame and stopped being a bitch. It's fine by me though, I don't have their beta stench all in my aura now and no ones cockblocking me.

They of course won't say anything about it, or lay out their issue with me. They just ghost like faggots are apt to do.

[–]Exogyra_Ponderosa0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I may not agree with these guys but I understand where they're coming from. Sometimes life deals you a shitty hand and you're handicapped for reasons that may or may not be your fault. I've been there and it fucking sucks. Some people will never fully understand what some individuals go through, perceived or otherwise. That said, there comes a point when you need to accept the facts and move on. whether it's facial aesthetics or money problems focus on what you can change then accept the rest. The anger and dissatisfaction are all part of the process.

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

  • Lowers Signal to Noise Ratio.

This includes, but is not limited to, "me, too" comments, comments that reiterate redpill consensus with no new useful ideas (even if they are heavily upvoted), memes or picture macros by themselves, textwalls (no paragraph breaks or otherwise difficult to read), or non sequiturs.

Chestbeating with no new useful ideas, removing.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

Really? Looks like we need some damn chest beating here. Absolutely I'm reiterating redpill consensus here because apparently there are some who don't seem to understand it. It's cool if their whiny little crybaby bullshit is here though right.

Also when will you be removing these shitposts?

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/33hz61/its_not_about_your_looks_but_its_not_not_about/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/33hhas/dont_ltr_when_your_young/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/33htg3/what_do_you_think_about_looks_are_everything_that/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/33gina/you_can_do_all_the_lifting_in_the_world_but_if/

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

Stop your bitching and moaning.

Keeping TRP from turning into a whinefest is MY job, not yours. Whining about whining does nothing but further lower the signal to noise ratio, even if you phrase it like curse-laced lecture so you'll look "so alpha, bro", instead of like the complainer you are actually being.

You want to actually reduce whining and self-pitying rants?

Use the report button. I can't read every comment on TRP. I'm sure you could link me to a bunch of weak, self-pitying comments on TRP, which I never deleted, which you are now ranting and complaining about.

But do you know why they didn't get deleted? Because you didn't report them. You hoarded them in your private grudge stash, then exchanged them for the valuable prize of one melodramatic screed about TRP is full of whiners.

Using report button may not give you the chance to grab the microphone and strut about pretending to be a badass, but it has other compensating advantage...

It actually works.

EDIT: You edited your comment to include links, just as I said you would be able to.

And not one of those had you bothered to hit the report button on. Just as I pointed out.

Go back and do that now.

Seriously. Stop complaining about the gravel, and start shoveling.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Clearly, because a bunch of babies reported this for my lack of sensitivity and you came running to their aid huh. If you're here to stop TRP from being a whine fest you're doing a real bang up job.

Grudge stash? Nah, I just noticed the trend of I'm so ugly noone likes me threads polluting the front page today. Your digs at my attitude are cute, probably fly real well in SRS or Twox where faggotry is the standard.

As for being "so alpha bro" I think the alpha/beta dichotomy is the biggest steaming pile of shit in TRP.

I'm not one to post stuff on this sub because frankly I come here to glean information and not stand on a soapbox. Today I kicked up a soapbox and got censored in the last place I ever figured I'd be censored.

As for me being a "complainer" I don't see how suggesting one wash themselves, lift some weights and own their faults is complaining at all.

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Grudge stash? Nah, I just noticed the trend of I'm so ugly noone likes me threads polluting the front page today.

So why the fuck didn't you hit the report button?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Because I'm not a little bitch who runs around tattling on everything he doesn't like, that's the bullshit SJW's pull...they can have their say and I'll go ahead and have mine, well before the babies report it and the mods remove it that is.

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You don't like the way I run this sub, feel free to start your own. See if you get to the 100K subscriber mark.

TRP is not a democracy. It's a modocracy, and the report button is what we use. Because it works. I don't give a fuck whether you think it's "censorship" or not, or whether you think people are "weak" for hitting it or not. Because I have only one top priority in how I run things here, and that is making sure the front page is full of juicy high quality content.

Is it juicy high quality content? No? Then I fucking censor the hell out of it. And that's my call.

Because I have a track record of successfully running this shit and making it work, and what you have is an unsolicited, untested, unpracticed, inexperienced, sophomoric and frankly stupid opinion.

Don't like that? Tough. I'd have to respect you to care what you think.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Who's really the "so alpuh bro" swinging your modhammer around like a kid with a new toy.

Unsolicited? Sophomoric? Yes.

Untested, unpracticed, inexperienced No..I'm a former fat ugly fuck who spent years wallowing in self pity and I dug my way out into a better life just as described. If the idea that you should own your current situation, clean your ass, lift and pulling yourself up by your goddamn bootstraps is stupid...Consider me stupid.

I used to respect, clearly I was misguided.

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