I need advice if anyone has any positive experiences dating these kind of girls, or is it all going to end up in flames every time.
Met a girl 2 weeks ago on a spontaneous evening out, and then we left together to this nightclub. She's cool, into her music, and goes out to club nights/raves most weekends, takes various drugs etc. Now I'm a sucker for these types of girls because I find them more fun, interesting and I have a lot more in common with them, and I don't meet many very often.
That first night, she came back to mine and we pretty much fucked all day the next day, it was pretty hot. She seemed keen as she didn't want to leave and I ended up letting her stay again the following night also. She was very affectionate, wanted to be cuddled, almost like relationship style. She didn't seem at all bothered about her phone throughout this whole time either with the battery being dead and her phone barely ever had any notifications, which I found unusual for a girl, made me think she can't have many guys on the go, if she does.
Throughout that week, we messaged back and forth and she was sending long, enthusiastic texts which showed her interest level was fairly high. We arranged to meet up earlier this week, and we had a few drinks at this bar, had a fun time and ended up taking acid together.
She stayed round at mine for 2 nights again, similar pattern followed except she was on her period this time so we had to stop to prevent making a mess.
She seemed keen and into me again, but after leaving mine 3 days ago, I am yet to hear off her at all which I wasn't expecting. Have I messed up along the way here? Have I started acting like a 'boyfriend' too soon by letting her stay over for so long, and spending so long in bed? Both times we were recovering from the night before, which meant we were basically curled up in bed together for the most part, and she slept a lot.
I know that she was going to another party/rave last night so now I'm thinking she could've just done the same thing with somebody else.
Haven't messaged her myself yet as I just want to keep things cool and show I'm not treating her like a girlfriend. I was planning on asking how her weekend was in a day or so.
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