Basically she was virgin before me and we were together for like 8 months (i then dumped her because i had to leave the town for few months), she then blocked me on all social media because she raged since i met multiple girls right after i left her. After that no contact for 6 months.

A week ago she literally came at me when i was at the bar with my friends to talk me, then just few hours after she added me back on on social medias

She asked me out for a drink the day after, i fucked her and she slept at my basement

We then texted a lot, so i asked her out yesterday because i want to fuck her again but she told me she can't for a valid reason, without counter offer from her.

Now she still spam me of text about random useless stuff, but since she hasn't gave me a counter offer for that second date, i stopped all the texting and left her on seen, she double texted me, i answered and then i left her on seen again

I just want to use text for logistics, not for random beta orbiter shit

Should i ask her out again (will make me beta and chasing her) or just soft next and wait if she counter offer ?