Set a first date up for today with a solid 7-8. She displayed high attraction, said she's down to go out without texting back and forth. She also mentioned she was drinking the night I told her I wanna see her, but she for sure wasn't "don't know what I'm doing" type of drunk.

Today I was waiting for 15 minutes on the meeting spot thinking she'll still come and I'll just tell her the first drinks are on her. I messaged her if she's coming or not and she said "Oh my god, I completely since the night I was drinking.." - I ignored. Then she messaged me "I mean we can still go out today, when are you free?" to which I replied with "I'm free now" - this all after 15 minutes of me asking her if she's coming.

Now, 1-2 hours later she texts me "I just came home.. :/"

What she did was extremely disrespectful, so I'm thinking of going with "That's fine, we can hang out at your place" or take the safe route and reschedule.

Another option is to soft next. Opinions?