I love my boyfriend. However, our personalities are very different. I am more laid-back while he is the type that constantly pressures me to do stuff. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate that he is hard-working and responsible and I feel that he influences me to improve and become more active and punctual. However, I also really feel that he exaggerates about some things. For example, he encourages me to create lists of all the "tasks" that I have to do, even if it's something minor and silly. I feel it's totally unnecessary to create a list over every minor job that I have to do but I don't want to displease him so I do it anyway. Also, he's basically the type who tends to worry a lot and this can get really annoying.

Does anyone else here feel like they have an incompatible personality with their SO? How do you deal with it? What is the best way to handle it?