Do you older guys still host and go to big parties? How to throw a party without a large circle?

Protocol_Apollo · 2020-10-11T20:35:46+00:00

You dropped out of college and your first thought is to host parties?

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-10-11T20:50:26+00:00

Get some of your friends together I guess? Go to the club if they’re open? Imo inviting tinder matches to a party is pretty pathetic

DoubleConversation4 · 2020-10-11T21:36:27+00:00

How to throw a party without a large circle?

You can't. Especially during this pandemic.

Are people still into partying in their late and mid 20's?

People always party.

Also how do you find lots of people to go to your party? Is it a good idea to just message all your hot tinder matches to come and bring their friends?

You won't know a single thing about any of those guys, that's just dangerous.

You just sound like you got your own place and want to party, that's now how it works. Get a social circle first.

spliezer · 2020-10-11T20:55:26+00:00

lol what is this the movie old school with will farrell? 22 is the age most people are getting out of college. i mean i could be wrong but people don’t really throw bangers anymore at that age, they have get togethers or go to bars. you can always reenroll in a party school near you next semester and go to parties then. they aren’t all they’re cracked up to be anyway, most people get bored of playing bp and drinking until they blackout by the end of their college experience. going back to college is probably your best option cause if you’re just some old dude throwing parties for randoms people will think you’re a little weird

2020-10-12T00:38:04+00:00

Throwing big house parties at like 25 is pretty lame. Just seems forced. And why would you ever have random people in your house. That’s just a recipe for disaster. Have some close friends over and have a good time being chill and having fun.

But seriously, you need to get to another level of maturity. There are things that are constructive, beneficial things you can do that bring enjoyment through building/completing tasks/advancement. Find the thing(s) that you can do in that, and you can take the next step in life.

michael1962-01 · 2020-10-12T06:26:05+00:00

That's

https://www.who.com.au/corey-worthington-now-the-party-and-14-things-you-didnt-know

the way to throw a party.

Just don't be afraid of the aftermath.

Ukhupa · 2020-10-12T17:08:08+00:00

Is it a good idea to just message all your hot tinder matches to come and bring their friends?

NO.

They are all practically strangers and there's a good chance they'll simply attend for free food and drinks and not have any desire to get to know you. At best, you're left with less money in your back account and zero new friends. At worst, you have the aforementioned stuff plus a wrecked house that you'll be left to fix and clean for yourself.

Build yourself a solid circle of trusted friends and do stuff together. A trip with four or five really good friends, to me, is more enjoyable than a house party full of people I don't know.

Title	Do you older guys still host and go to big parties? How to throw a party without a large circle?
Author	SnooCalculations990
Upvotes	11
Comments	13
Date	October 11, 2020 8:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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