So around two weeks ago i was on a tinder-date with this girl. The date went surprisingly well, it was my first date since the corona hit. Drinks, moved bars, played some pool,and after a while i escalated smoothly and we madeout. She even commented that it was "smooth af". Since the bars closed early, i walked her home, and we had a drink at her place and madeout some more. I pushed slightly for an f-close, but it ended up with just a goodnight-kiss. I didn't get an impression that it was LMR, and that i should have pushed more. She started proposing that we should go eat somewhere in a few days, so it seemed like she was interested in seeing me again. Next morning i woke up to a text from her where she said she had a great time and asked me how i was feeling etc. Seemed like signs of a successful first date, right?

A few days later, on a friday, i texted her asking if she was free this weekend. I didn't get a reply until monday, where she told me "Sorry, I'm so bad at replying, i've actually been having a 'phone-free weekend'". What kind of single woman doesn't use her phone through an entire weekend in 2020? Seems like a bs excuse right? I was pretty busy most of that next week, but when the weekend arrived, i asked her if she was free on sunday. She did the same thing again, not replying until monday, this time saying "I had visitors this weekend! How was yours?". She has proclaimed that she wants to meet again, but i'm confused as to why she's acting like this.

Is she just stringing me along or something? Is the ball in her court now, and i should pull back a bit? I know, there's a high chance she's fucking other dudes or going on other dates, and has me as a sort of backup, i guess. What would be the best move here? Strike three and she's out? Next already?