This is getting so old at this point.

They go online and complain about how their BF is abusive, trash, manipulative, etc. What immediately comes to mind is: why did you decide to date this person in the first place?!

How did you not see ANY red flags at the beginning? Because there's no way they just magically appear our of nowhere.

Like I mentioned earlier, it's getting so old at this point. Don't complain about your BF being the way he is because red flags don't come up out of nowhere.