Do you have any stories on women invading your personal space at work?

mgtowconclusion · 2020-10-07T09:33:41+00:00

I was bending over putting a file away, an older female colleague (higher up in the food chain than me) walks past and smacks me hard on the bum with a file, and says "Sorry I could not resist it, you have such a lovely bum".

My female manager witnessed the incident, followed the old hag back to her office, and told her off (I could hear the conversation from where I was putting files away).

I appreciate that my manager stood up for me and told the old hag off, but surely the response should have been "You've just been assaulted, would you like me to provide a witness statement so you can report her to the Police and press charges".

countinginsolitude · 2020-10-07T11:19:57+00:00

I remember one woman (my manager) saw me in a really, really small room that could barely fit 1 person in, nevermind 2. She was probably 35 and I was 16, she edged past me and her ass was practically pressed up against me. I couldn't pin-point whether it was intentional or whether she was genuinely trying to get something off the shelf in the room. Nothing ever came of it, but it was extremely uncomfortable, but I learned a few things: 1) Never be alone with a woman in work and 2) She was banging another manager at the time, which is when I first learned about hypergamy

FanofLemmy · 2020-10-07T12:00:04+00:00

I have been groped by various female staff. I lift, but my uniform covers a lot. A few times the nurses have thanked us with a late on the back or have brushed up against us and then realize how muscular I am, then it's a grope fest where they all try to feel me up and talk about my muscles.

One officer cant keep her hands off me. She is constantly touching me and sending me inappropriate things. I straight up told her we are gonna fuck. She laughed and said no. I told her then she should start acting like a professional and not like a whore.

I have been felt up at other jobs I have had. As a personal trainer I have been felt up, eye raped, talked about, ect, more than I'd care to share. Sometimes by the staff. Unless I say it's okay, never touch me. Especially now. That's how people get a broken arm.

I have been sent sexually explicit material of a girl, only to reject her, and have her claim I sexually harrassed her and had rumours spread around. Then she would try to continue to hang around me at work and get me to hang around her outside of work.

Only my gym bros can feel me up cause guess what, we are all improving ourselves and trying to lift each other up to being better all the time.

SonOfAldrete · 2020-10-07T10:20:48+00:00

Theres a conveyor at my job and at the time my knee was so messed up at the time I had to drag my right leg to move. 9 hours in and my feet hurt so I made the decision to crouch down and a female a few feet in front of my on the other side decides to stretch her leg in a way where her crouch was in my face. She seems like the kind of person that would falsely accuse someone, as she has accused a friendly acquaintance of mine of sexual harrassment. I had to move quickly in pain to remove myself from the situation. That conveyor was many yards long, and she could have stretched anywhere else.

Cursedwithknowing · 2020-10-07T11:06:29+00:00

Report each and every incident to HR, and make them follow their own rules. If they don't, talk to a lawyer. If it's a company with deep pockets, a lawyer would love to go after big money.

Last_Supermarket302 · 2020-10-07T13:52:37+00:00

Plenty of times I have felt people have invaded my personal space, but since most of my work involves looking at screens I couldn't say it was intensional since I was showing them something on them.

However there was one instance of an old lady hugging me because she was trying 'sweet talk' me into something I had already said no to.

My director walked past with the HR director, and all I got was, 'whats the fuck is going on over there?' Oh this lady worked in HR too, so its not like they weren't aware of the correct way of behaving.. But basically we were in administration and it was clear no one gave a fuck any more..

2020-10-08T09:32:53+00:00

Lady in her late 40s gives me a friendly thigh squeeze as she apologizes for accidentally falling on me on the tube. I couldn't do the same if I was in her shoes, which proves that despite all the hoo-ha about the need for equality, men and women are seen differently and thus treated unequally. Females are seen as weak and need extra propping up. Men are seen as strong and need tempering.

I fall on her; I give her thigh a friendly squeeze; she feels violated sexually; I have to show up at the police station.

Title	Do you have any stories on women invading your personal space at work?
Author	katoswashington
Upvotes	17
Comments	10
Date	October 7, 2020 9:12 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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