Hi all,

Met a cute blonde girl years ago.... she dated a acquaintance of mine but prior to this I never gave her too much attention. We started hooking up, I didn't think it was going anywhere and sure enough as more time, and (sex) happened, the corona virus lock down in the USA here, and other things... we started seeing each other more often.

I do know her from my group of friends so I know a lot of truths about her past and who she is... we were kinda friends.

One thing is she is a nice girl, trustworthy to me (in the present) and we have a lot of fun. Picking up girls and hooking up with them and shes non jealous... in fact.. Ive been the one who is being worse by not only getting threesomes, by throwing her past in her face for basically being a whore when we argue... kinda counter intuitive. I have slept with over 100+ women and she never criticizes me on this.

I will tell you guys the green flags and the red flags

Green

-she deleted all past men off her IG/socials when we started seeing each other.

-She doesnt answer DM's from any guys

-she doesnt seem interested in anyone else but me

-she does not have Daddy issues and father seems completely normal.

-comes from a somewhat wealthy family

-has never cheated on past bfs (I know her from social circles and more info)

-we have threesomes, she never wants another guy as she does like girls but not enough to date them (anymore - see later)

Red Flags

-she used one of those sugar daddy sites when things were bad after her ex. slept with 3 or 4 men. I was started to see her during this phase and I let her talk so I got a lot of info. Definitely was traded dinner and a trip by one of them for sex - not 'entirely' but probably (she could have liked him but she still got a expensive dinner etc). Said she was in an angry men phase and she regrets doing it. She was posting being in expensive cars at the time and it was likely to get back at an ex. She doesnt talk to these guys anymore.

-She had a pro athelete she was seeing and she was flying out to see him. He contacted her while we were together but she never answered him. I do not think she is alpha widowed as she stopped contacting him even though he wanted more with her... I have proof of this whether it matters or not.

-On IG, she went after a lot of alpha/status dudes.. following guys mostly because of wealth status and likely DM's (her profile had like 30-40 of these guys who also followed her back and when we started dating she deleted them all) this could be due to detection but also she said she didnt know them. The fact is --- she was hunting in a more agressive way than most women. I do understand it from a guys perspective but its almost too calculated.

-she dated a girl for a couple years and thought she was a lesbian, even introduced the girl family.

-Fucked guys of all races, as she doesnt look at race as something (ok fair - not TRYING to be racist)... but her parents frowned upon it. She doesnt go after race - but she definitely goes after status/money?? - I cant figure out if I frown at this or if she just has high standards.

-Likely fucked 30-40 guys if i had to guess. She said under 20.. hasn't had a relationship longer than a year

-Very much into plastic surgery, botox and all of that. Wants a BBL and other surgeries most girls wouldnt care for. Has her tits done

Outside of all this.... her past is her past. She is in late 20's but doesnt want to have kids. It could be a fun life or a miserable one. She has said she has changed and learned from her mistakes.

One thing is certain.. I need to either continue going for the ride or end it. Does present ever matter or is past always, and especially past like this... a death sentence.

I think someone will actually have a good relationship with her, but they can't care about stuff like her past and they would have to be an alpha kinda no stress type of dude or jealousy.