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Focus on YOU

EmanuelGold
May 10, 2015
10 upvotes
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Title Focus on YOU
Author

EmanuelGold
Upvotes 10
Comments 8
Date May 10, 2015 2:49 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/35gfx1/focus_on_you/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/focus-on-you.32399
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[–]Di-onysos9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

There are few things more satisfying than meeting the girls that thought themselves above your league in high school 5 years later and witnessing them realize that now you are far above their league.

Real life Hero's Journey if there ever is one.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It might be a nice feeling but it's a poisoned apple.
To consciously take pleasure in the opinion of a women on your life is to subconsciously teach yourself to seek their validation.

And you don't want to find yourself seeking validation from a gremlin.

[–]EmanuelGold1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely mate, couldn't agree more.

[–]ChadThundercockII0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Never doubt the hero's journey, bro. NEVER !

[–]goodgame_sir2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Good for you man. Its great to hear things have been going well for you.

Part of TRP is to focus on yourself, rather than becoming this selfless, self-sacrificial white knight who's thinking about others (or someone) all the time. And now, in your stage, on the brink of success, is where the other aspect of TRP comes in. These women will try to latch on to you and ride on your success, all the while, holding you, your wealth and kids as hostages. When they say "oh I don't know what I'm doing with myself" they want you to inquire more and become more interested. Watch out for these toxic people, those who never gave a fuck about you before and all of a sudden they're all wide-eyed about you. Think about it, they only started sharing their problems and opening up to you after you told them about your job offers and companies.

Watch out man... I wish you the best.

[–]EmanuelGold0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for the advice man. Completely agree - I have no plans to get married, all the older guys I've worked with have told me to stay a bachelor.

They said all that marriage does is put a halt on your potential for success, wives will increasingly demand more. More time with her, more effort, more for the kids, more holidays, less sex. Fuck that.

[–]goodgame_sir4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And remember, refusing to marry them won't stop them from attempting to get pregnant with your child. One of their main hallmarks is when they won't allow you to use a condom, instead, they will try to deceive you by claiming to rely on other disproved methods because they "know better". They will try all the tricks in their books to seduce you.. so they can get their free income for 18 years.

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What is it with all masturbatory crap posts being preceded by the word "gentlemen"?

Removing.

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