Before I go into the field report itself be sure to check out /u/bsutansalt comfort game posts since this field report goes right a long with them. I've been a big advocate for this approach since it's worked reasonably well with me.

You can find them here and here.

Anyway.

Over the past few months I've continued to work Comfort Game. Last night I realized that the Disqualification Management can also be used to put off other men trying to come and talk to the same girl that you're approaching.

As with everything there are specific times when this will work, specific ways to do this without coming across catty or beta, and determining this will be at your discretion.

The report starts at a hookah bar in town that I frequent. I've gotten to know the owners and workers so we have an unspoken understanding that when I'm there they'll seat whatever attractive girls that enter near my party's table. I call this hookah bar the Safari Zone because I literally pay for my hookah, go in, and catch whatever "pokemon" are there that night. (I hope some of you get that reference, I was proud of it.)

So last night I was there and cold approached this young, HB8 or 9 (She didn't have too big of tits but tight stomach, pretty face, and a nice ass so I give her a solid 8) blonde haired Bulgarian girl. She was talking to one of the workers that I know so I went and chatted with him about a clothing business he's trying to start up, to establish rapport, and then transitioned to introducing myself to her.

Bubbly, flirty, typical young girl personality. We sit next to each other and I make conversation going through the differences in culture, her morals, what she believes, etc.. During this whole time I'm working to build as much of an "emotional connection" with her as I can. Qualifying the traits that I like, and Disqualifying the traits that we both disagree on. Anything that she says she doesn't like I try to amplify to make it stick out to her.

She mentioned that her ex boyfriend always tried to plan things and would never just make spur of the moment decisions. So I started talking about how everybody should want adventure in their life, and to try new things.

If you're a decent conversationalist, this technique should be very natural to you.

Throughout the night different guys would come up to her that she knew and would ask her what her plans were for the night. Literally 3 of the conversations went exactly like this…

BB: "Hey! Where's my hug?" (I cringed as I wrote that.)

Her: "Hey! (gives guy hug and pats his back twice on the release)" I note that because you don't "pat" someone on the back that you're interested in. If a girl ever pats you on the back, I'm willing to bet she doesn't want to fuck you.

BB: "What's your plans for after this? Are you going to (insert club down the street)?"

Her: "I think so! Are you going?"

BB: "I was thinking about it, I might have some people over at my place if you wanna come over?"

Her: "You should go to (insert club from down the street)!"

BB: "Okay I'll do that for sure!"

Girl walks away and comes to sit down on the couch next to me again.

It's important to note, also that during that time I didn't sit there like a pouting bitch. There were other females she was with that I chatted with and I also had my party with me still so whenever that happened I always acted like it was nothing and waited for her to initiate conversation with me again.

During our conversations I'm initiating kino. Slight touches on the back, to full arm around her back, sitting close, leg touches, etc. She responded well to all of this which is why I continued investing time.

So at some point another dude comes up, this one she had mentioned earlier. He was "dancing" at one of the nearby tables and she commented on how stupid he looked, and how he had asked her to teach him how to dance before (She does ballet.) She knows the guy through a mutual friend and it's clear he wants to get with her.

So he comes up while I'm sitting there with my arm around her "just to say hi" and to see what she's doing tonight. Immediately before she can answer the guy; I say "Bro she was talking about how you're like a pro dancer and you could teach her some moves." Insert Laughs from both her and him

She quickly dismisses him and he moves on to continue his jester dancing elsewhere.

What I went for with that was