So I was married previously for 7 years, wife cheated because she didn't feel like a priority in my life. Recently had a girlfriend of 7 months who left me because she didn't feel like a priority in the relationship. I work as a Police Officer, and I'm training (workout, shoot, Jim Jitsu) to go into SWAT. Plus, I have a social circle that I try to keep up with.

Is this an odd coincidence that they both felt the same way?