I've recently got into an ltr, the relationship itself is fine, only minor issues that i'm working on, but there is a problem.

I'm being so much less effective because of it (and lazier, working a lot less) .

We both live with our parents as were 18 and the way it goes is: She comes over for three days once a week. We talk fuck sleep eat and repeat, and fuck up our hours in the meantime, and my sleep quality is pretty bad with her, I do it because i love cuddling.

How do I fix this situation? What are alternative ways of doing this (which don't include spending money neither of us have on buying food)