Thanks to taking the pill I now have a few plates and I’m continuously working on getting more to build an abundance mindset.

However one of the plates I’m seeing I enjoy spending time with her more and more. My frame has been on point and I passed a few shit tests with this new found rp knowledge. She always initiates contact, never refuses sex, does anything I want and is generally fun to be around. Everything is good (but not ltr material)

But now I feel the signs that a slight oneitis is creeping in (thinking about her more, feeling a little bad knowing she’s also get piped by other dudes etc.) it’s very slight but I’ve had oneitis before and i know it will get worse if I see her more, and as we all know: oneitis is a bitch

So I’m thinking of nexting her, even though she’s a perfect plate. To cut my loses of tapping that ass just to keep on my path of improvement. If it’s a soft next, I’m sure she will pop up in the future but it depends how she takes it .

I was very clear from the start I’m not interested in a relationship and soft nexted but she came back a week later to get more D. It’s now been a few months with her, she knows it’s strictly sex between us.

So I have a few options

  1. Continue as usual but also not meet her so much and focus more on other plates

  2. Soft next her, and when she initiates just say I’m busy. I’m pretty sure if I don’t see her that much these slight oneitis feelings will go and I’ll be back to dealing her as a normal plate. She’s hot, so she will be with another guy as her main dick very easily, so I will probably lose her and maybe reconnect months down the line when they finish (but maybe she will move on for good)

  3. Hard next her and move on to make sure I don’t fall into oneitis, cut my losses

  4. Suggest something

I would also be interested in hearing if anybody has done this before, was it a good decision?