What if I wanted children of mine

PrestigiousGreen3 · 2020-10-30T02:44:30+00:00

Surrogacy is the closest you can get to it.

Dunkman83 · 2020-10-30T03:26:05+00:00

well then u will have the kid.

it wont work out.

hopefully u dont get divorce raped or child support tortured

mariof135 · 2020-10-30T03:02:13+00:00

hmm I guess surrogacy or knock someone up in a 3rd world country and be a vacation dad.

jumpysail · 2020-10-30T04:04:30+00:00

I’m red pilled too, but for me, having my own kids some day is important too. And no, I don’t want to adopt, I want the kids to be my blood. The best we can do is find the best woman we can. Be the kind of guy that she won’t wanna cheat on, but sign a prenup. It’s a risk, but life as a whole is a risk and as a man, we are meant to take risks. Good luck brother.

Hefty-Performance210 · 2020-10-30T02:43:13+00:00

There literally no hope for that

PrinceRaj53 · 2020-10-30T05:41:13+00:00

What if I wanted children of mine

Surrogacy and adoption. Both options are available, and they're actually thousand times better investments than marriage. For me, its either of these options, as in my country both of these options are considerably cheaper than a marriage. Like the "Full benefits of an investment" type.

Whatever suits you, you should go for it.

Edit : I have seen some amusing stuff in the comments here(the comment disappeared for me for some reason after I refreshed the post so I can't see the username of the commenter), which I would like to mention, so that no one makes that kind of mistake in terms of thinking. Please do not keep this thought process as I have mentioned in quoted lines , if you value your life.

"I don’t want to adopt, I want the kids to be my blood."

In my culture, there is a thing that fathers teach their boys in the "man to man" talks : "your "biological seed" does not mean anything. Its not your legacy. Your legacy, that you will leave behind, is what you have learned in your life, your knowledge, your achievements, your deeds, your excellence. When you teach that/give that to a fellow man and that fellow man/men carry that further, that is what your legacy is. If you have lived your best life that you possibly can, have done good deeds, achieved your point of excellence and inspired others to be like you, then you have made your legacy. Son, you are not my legacy. The knowledge, the wisdom and the excellence I am passing to others is".

Now thats what sons learn here from their fathers. Let's talk about the legal aspect now. Legally and societally, your biological seed does not belong to you. That seed which calls you "pops/father/dad/dada", that belongs to the woman, and the government as a transaction utility. It is something that does not belong to you in the first place.

"The best we can do is find the best woman we can."

Speaking in terms of reality, or observable reality as some like to say, there is no such thing as a "good woman", or whatever euphemism our minds like to think, like loyal, virtuous or the other fancy words. It's all about how gullible and willfully ignorant a man is. The more the man is like that, the easier it is for him to find his "unicorn".

"Be the kind of guy that she won’t wanna cheat on, but sign a prenup."

For the first part, "be the kind of guy that she wont wanna cheat on" means you as a man are ready to jump through hoops, to meet her constant change of demands and requirements as well as operate in her frame and be in a subservient role, be on your "top game", subscribe to the same belief system she is subscribing to for that day while being ready to change that next day, and do all of this every single day, just to be able to have kids with her and to keep her loyal.

Sounds like a good deal?

Now, as a logical man, I only have two questions :

1)From which angle does this look like a good investment?

2)How & why is a woman worthy of that investment exactly?

As for the prenup, I think in 2020, this is common sense that the toilet paper does not have any value, legal or anything.

"It’s a risk, but life as a whole is a risk and as a man, we are meant to take risks."

No offense to anyone, but this is one of the stupidest and most nonsensical quotes/lines I have ever heard in my entire life in terms of relationships and women. This "something is better than nothing" mentality is why women are able to sell men the delusional pipe dream of a marriage.

MKUltraExtreme3 · 2020-10-30T08:24:52+00:00

Big Brother/Big Sister Program.

If you can tolerate that, only then.

Not otherwise.

Deplorable_X · 2020-10-30T13:41:05+00:00

Dude, just got o Ucraine or eastern Europe, you will find someone to have a child in exchange for a few thousands dollars.

YouSaidChicken · 2020-10-30T03:52:29+00:00

The fetish with one's own bloodline is, when you step back from it, as much a sex fetish as anyone else.

Which would you prefer, two of your DNA kids, both of which are absolutely retarded and you're changing their diapers until they're 30, or would you rather have two healthy kids that had absolutely no DNA link to you at all?

As an unrelated factoid, bananas share about 60% of the same DNA as humans.

A few generations from now, even if you have kids coming from you, it won't have any of you left in it.

Do you want to parent children? Or do you want your ego stroked and inaccurate view of science in the flesh, where, of course, it could be that adorable Down's syndrome kid everyone begs for?

usnraptor · 2020-10-30T14:32:47+00:00

In this world, the child will be society's right and your responsibility.

TheShadowbyte · 2020-10-30T15:02:32+00:00

One option is to move to a developing country where feminism isn't nearly as widespread, i.e. where women actually behave like, you know, women, and get a girl there. But then again, with the constant growth of feminist ideas globally, who knows how long that can last...

2020-10-30T18:34:03+00:00

Why don't you just raise a kid with a partner? I'm confused, can you not have your own children?

DryMeats · 2020-10-30T03:47:29+00:00

You know, you can control a woman pretty easily. I don’t know what you’re worried about.

Title	What if I wanted children of mine
Author	rahmoune7
Upvotes	19
Comments	20
Date	October 30, 2020 2:41 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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