Back when I was w/ my ex. He was always asking, begging, pleading, complaining about not getting enough sex; after I got home from a hard day of 10 hours of work. There he was kissing on my neck, like I predicted and me shrugging him off so I can take a shower, eat and sleep. Sometimes it worked and other times it was me being coerced into sex.

I read so many things about how people in relationships need to negotiate or compromise sex into a relationship for it to be healthy 😬

I of course got sucked into the pickmeisha standards and I didn't think it was right whatsoever. I had to do more to keep a man. I had very low standards at the time when I was with him. He called me fat and I needed to stopped eating candy during one of my period cravings.

All in all, it was just too much. I couldn't do it anymore. He can have a pickmeisha, they can be his superwoman. I'm so tired of the abusive shit and I couldn't take it anymore. I left.