Being a asshole isn’t in my nature and I keep losing frame when a girl gets mad

Dempseytysonali · 2020-12-05T03:53:03+00:00

"Recently I was a dick to my ex and was rude and mean while she was loving I constantly put her down and shit"

Wtf.

By treating her "bad", we mean play the game to keep her interested, like not giving validation, not being too available,.. shit like that.

We don't mean be rude and mean, that's fucking stupid.

fourwindsgold · 2020-12-05T04:52:06+00:00

Its not about being rude its about being selfish. Realise she is only a part of the ride so you need to look after yourself and dgaf whats in her best interest.

Protocol_Apollo · 2020-12-05T05:03:43+00:00

Cocky/fun asshole not dick asshole.

And then you completely lost frame, so much so she thought she should put you on probation.

Very gay.

Next time, don’t apologise, don’t ever say I’ll never do the asshole shit.

and I like being nice

And that’s the problem.

Being nice isn’t a good sexual strategy, it just leads you getting put on probation.

If you have to, always be a little too asshole than a little too nice.

And read the sidebar.

Title	Being a asshole isn’t in my nature and I keep losing frame when a girl gets mad
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	December 5, 2020 3:35 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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