Yo guys,

So I matched this hb8.5 on tinder but she’s in a different city about an hour away.

I know her from when I used to live there but only met her once or twice while she was working.

Now I wanna take her for a drink but how do I tell her I’d need to stay over while only texting for logistics? If I say ‘I’ll come but I’ll need to sleep at yours’ it implies I wanna have sex. Last train home is 10:30 so I’d need to leave the date at the latest 10pm.

Otherwise how do I get her to come to my city? She’d still have to leave early if she didn’t wanna stay but will make it less stress for me.

Any ideas?