If you are hanging in this sub for more than a year (maybe less, or more) you are doing it wrong

WickedAtReddit · 2020-11-28T06:05:35+00:00

I agree with you. In my opinion growth is not possible if "you" linger on the same stuff for to long. That doesn't mean I'll never revisit this sub. But I'll keep my healthy distance.

A thought i had for a while now, "you" as an individual cannot really grow if "you're" constantly in a group. I think this might be true, and is related to your topic.

2020-11-28T08:21:20+00:00

I'm just here for the memes.

jabbercockey · 2020-11-28T14:36:07+00:00

For those who have really been burned in a divorce or been through some girlfriend trauma like false-rape or property destruction etc. hopefully they can move past the rage. reading this sub daily may just keep adding salt to an open wound.

There's another kind of man going there own way. Ones who haven't really had anything traumatic or even that bad happen with a woman. they just haven't had anything good happen.
Beta simps, AFC, incel, Nice Guys, Losers, whatever term you use. there are a whole lot of guys that for whatever reason never could "get" women in either sense.

For guys like this the temptation to slip back in to their former world view is great. It's painful but also comforting because it's what we know.
They have maybe some female co-workers or relatives that don't seem so AWALT. Maybe they think "My father always seemed happy with my mom." Pretty soon they may start thinking "I don't know who those guys are on-line. I don't think they are right. They've just had some bad girls." Then...they get in trouble.

Guys like that, guys like me need to keep reading from this sub every day or their tendency is to slip back into simping.

To stay with the pill analogy, some angry patients may need to take the red pill for a while but then need to stop because the side effects of anger are too destructive. Other patients who have been on a blue pill regime since puberty or before may need to take red pill doses regularly for the rest of their lives.

Title	If you are hanging in this sub for more than a year (maybe less, or more) you are doing it wrong
Author	SahinOlut
Upvotes	7
Comments	3
Date	November 28, 2020 6:01 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/k2ihii/if_you_are_hanging_in_this_sub_for_more_than_a/
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