So whatever I do I try and become the best of my ability in the specific thing I'm focusing on and cant see anything else, whether it be gym I would neglect my social life, when I swallowed the pill, I got better at gaming girls, and my social life improved massively, whenever I do something other things suffer, I'm either playing all the time, or working all the time, overly analytical, or too relaxed, serious all the time or fun and spontaneous you get the picture, so my question is how do you find balance so you can focus on multiple things at the same time?