I dated her for 5 months until she asked to become official. I found her quite attractive at the time and still do in some kind of way and so I agreed. It lasted 3 months until she broke it off "because I was too macho". Since than I never made the mistake again to mixing up shit tests with comfort tests. Not taking her comfort tests seriously fucked it up.

It did get to me although I quickly found 5 other plates. I choose her at that time between 4 plates. I continously dated up when it comes to attractiveness and she has been an 8 on my scale. Tall, blonde girl with big boobs. My type.

I idiot tried to get her back (were several things I learned from that relationship). I eventually got over her and continued to plate other girls. She was dead to me, but as I said it was kinda messy in the end.

A very good friend from uni (both know each other for the last 6 years, spend most of the time together the last 2 years, pussy slayer, swimmer so good physique and on top of it all, I live with him with 2 girls in a flat at our uni city) has been very active on tinder the last months and came across her on time last year, but they didn't match.

Somehow on another app, they either matched or she has her instagram handle in the bio, so either him or her started following on Instagram. They are both now following each other.

To me: tbs through huge family problems since 1,5 years, I have not been the same cool, unphased guy. I just concentrate now finishing the hard engineering degree. After that I dont know yet, what would be best to do.

I am studying for an exam in 4 days and cant get my mind of this shit. He asked me 2 weeks ago when eating if it would be ok to date her. I said no, not really bro. Kinda shit. What I absolutely cant understand is, he has no problems getting girls on a night out.

I've read some old posts, and the opinions differ pretty much, depending on the factors involved. He helped me kinda in the difficult time, and I started helping him again, when some stuff has been resolved again on my side, but as I said, I have not been completely my fully disciplined, straight self since the shit in my family happened.

I am thinking about talking with him, but also thought about just cutting contact/involvement, but kinda hard in the flat situation. He's the one, I talk with about all things girls/etc. I also know all about his plates etc.