Social Skills to Attract Women – Boundaries and Self-Respect

Six months ago, my life was not going well. To be completely truthful, it was pathetic. A messed up childhood and bad breakup left me mentally fucked. For a year and a half, I'd been stuck at a shitty job, with very few friends, and barely any woman. And, like so many of you, I got sick of it.

I don’t remember the exact moment I decided to kick my own ass into shape, but I did. I set out to change one thing about myself a week. Within a month, I doubled my salary and had a friend with benefits. And it’s not like I put on 10 pounds of muscle or suddenly got more attractive. I simply changed my behavior. I stopped being a bitch and started on my path to manhood.

This article is going to cover the first six things I changed. I suggest you work on one thing a week. These changes are hard to make, and you want to be sure they stick. But each of them will turn you into a stronger and more confident man. There are no gimmicks here. Each of these traits will become a part of your everyday personality, but you need to stay with it. Repetition is key.

If you treat yourself like shit, everyone else will too. Let me repeat that. IF YOU TREAT YOURSELF LIKE SHIT, EVERYONE ELSE WILL TOO. I am sure we all know how important it is to pass shit tests and stand up to other males. But to do this, we need to have the confidence to know our opinions actually are better. We have to know we can handle things and assess the situation BETTER than the woman who's shit testing you or the man who's trying to prove himself right. That's why when we remake ourselves, we're going to start with boundaries and self-respect. Or in other words, not taking shit from anyone.

Rule One: Do NOT ask for trivial advise.

Women want leaders in their life. Most modern men have been taught to check with everyone before making a decision, or even worse, ask others to come up with a solution FOR THEM. This is terrible. If you can’t make decisions for yourself, what kind of man are you? If you can’t come up with a solution to a problem, how the fuck are you going to provide for anyone else, let alone yourself? So stop asking for advice now. Not just from woman, but from everyone. Don’t ask your teachers, don’t ask your bosses, don’t ask your dad. Man up now. Let yourself fuck up if you have too. It will teach you a million times faster.

You'll find that you're better at running your own life than anyone else.

Rule Two: Stop complaining.

If there's one thing a woman you have just met does not give one shit about, it is your problems. Nothing sucks the energy out of a conversation faster than whining. A woman is not there to be your emotional support.

Don’t believe me? Then I suggest you go hit on that hot blonde at work and tell her all about your tennis elbow, how hard it was to do your taxes, and how as a child you were almost always picked last for dodge ball.

You will hear the unpleasant sound of panties actually being sucked up into a vagina in an attempt to create an impenetrable barrier. It’s not that your car broke down and you are distraught, it’s that you get to work on your car now.

Instead of talking about problems, become a man who talks about solutions.

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