Serious post here. I love it when a girl rims me or uses her dildo on me down there. Last month, I came from it alone and it was the best orgasm of my life.

Last month I fucked 4 girls, and only the one was open to the idea. This month, I've brought it up to a new one and she was just not down. Last time we fucked though, she was fingering me lightly and even 69'd with me on top and her eating it out.

There's two parts to this in my mind. One, obviously, is the grossness part (which can be mitigated as much as possible). Secondly, does it break a dominant frame? My girls generally call me daddy/master and are begging to please me, but won't when it comes to this. I assume it puts me in a submissive frame and breaks the fantasy I create for them. Is this the case?