Do you automatically disqualify women who you’ve slept with on the first night meeting them as a no longer LTR applicable.

Tramzh · 2020-02-22T18:19:06+00:00

sounds like TRP syndrome, u dont want her to give in too early cus then shes a slut but if she withholds sex shes a waste of time

jammyjam50 · 2020-02-22T18:43:09+00:00

Anyone who thinks there is a difference between a first date hoe and a third date hoe. Is just a clown begging to be manipulated by hoes.

spcparks · 2020-02-22T17:55:00+00:00

Depends on how easy it was for me. Sometimes I can be ruthless in pursuit and she just finds herself wanting to smash. Other times the girl just gives in way too easy and there was no chase which made me feel like I didn’t win a prize.

How does it make you feel after you smash? Do you feel accomplished or do you feel like You were given a handout?

For me, I don’t really think about it. Who cares if she is a slut or not. You wanted to fuck right?

Elihad15 · 2020-02-22T18:54:18+00:00

For me it’s dependent on her past record. If it’s a virgin obviously I’ll wait a hell of a lot longer. If she’s only been with two guys in two Ltr’s then I’ll wait a few dates if I enjoy her company. If she’s had a one night stand prior... either we’re knocking boots the first or second meeting or I’m out. I refuse to be held to a different standard than the lowest bar she set for herself.

WiterS2 · 2020-02-22T23:52:58+00:00

Getting sex depends on your skills. You have to be able to tell if she was turned on by your work, or she gave it cheaply.

If she gave it easily, she does the same with any man, and she will cheat.

But if she was turned on by your effort, she can't be judged, because attraction is not a choice. Desire is not negotiated. Desire is induced by you. You can't blame her for your skill.

To tell the difference between cheap sex, and the product of your effort, you need practice and calibration.

Calibration is the intuitive awareness that you get about her emotional state.

2020-02-22T22:57:45+00:00

I think that the opposite is true, only women who have sex on the first date are genuinely interested in you and are thus potential LTR material. In my experience if this doesn't happen it ends up in friend zone waiting for something that never happens.

IbahBar · 2020-02-22T18:24:04+00:00

There are much more important fastors than this. Such as how good the sex is. How much does she desire you? How is the social interactions, and so on.

fretty555 · 2020-02-22T19:27:23+00:00

I guess if you can get a girl to do it on the first night, you can get a lot more women to do that too, so why would you consider an LTR in the first place. at least thats my rationalization. but it also really depends on the girl you know, there are girls that I can fuck on the first night, but many other dudes cant, so she could be worth it, but still why would I? live free or die hard

MisterRoid · 2020-02-22T22:30:37+00:00

The way I look at it it's possible to bed any girl (in the west) on the first date. So if you don't end up having sex with her, that only means she didn't want to have sex with you on the first date. When you think about it it's kinda silly to have an arbitrary rule not to have sex with someone you are attracted to for X amount of dates anyways.

frognads · 2020-02-23T01:30:36+00:00

Nope not at all. The two most ltr worthy girls I've dated fucked hours after meeting me.

The girls who made me wait have always been more insecure down the line.

RPNorvell · 2020-02-22T22:33:46+00:00

Why?

Why does her sexuality have anything to do with her suitability?

It's better if she fucks you on the first date.

SteveSan82 · 2020-02-23T00:22:50+00:00

Yes since LTR are blue pilled. Drop oneitis.

Diabolo_Advocato · 2020-02-23T07:00:03+00:00

If you test drive a car and like it, do you get a different car?

savageinthebox · 2020-02-22T17:55:56+00:00

Married one.

ImplodedVeggies · 2020-02-22T18:51:34+00:00

Depends on the amount of LMR

rangat42 · 2020-02-22T19:03:52+00:00

No. Just because they slept with you on the first night does not neccessarily mean they are a slut. I slept with a virgin on the first night before, turned into ltr

wheremyballsgo · 2020-02-22T18:10:23+00:00

If she doesn't sleep with me by the 7th date then I don't ltr.

latrobe1000 · 2020-02-23T07:38:16+00:00

depends how easy i mean if she is sucking u off within minutes then yea she probs does this with other guys

RingAlmostFuckedMe · 2020-02-24T02:08:15+00:00

LTR? LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Bro it's 2020. LTR equal 6 months TOPS.

Title	Do you automatically disqualify women who you’ve slept with on the first night meeting them as a no longer LTR applicable.
Author	mrnuttty
Upvotes	14
Comments	36
Date	February 22, 2020 5:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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