Currently have 2 plates. This one is a HB7, 22, lived in Canada in her car for a year, has a n-count of 6 (RP math 12) and is a CrossFit Trainer.

I made it clear from the very start that I’m not committing but she clearly has feelings and recently tries to be more romantic. She’s my fav plate right now because I made her open for more kinky sex through introducing her to light bdsm and just guiding her into things like anal.

The less I react and respond to her romantic shit the more she bombs me with this crap. And believe me I only use texting for logistics and still get this crap every morning or in person.

I have other options on hand but I like the kinky sex, so any idea how I can slow her down? I tried browsing the main sub already but I wasn’t able to find anything.

My gut says I should just continue and next her as soon as she withholds sex to make me commit.

I already soft nexted her for a week when she mentioned something like „maybe you’d like me more when we wouldn’t have sex every time we meet“. Shit worsened her obsession with me and made her kinky af.

Also take it serious and don’t blame me because I’m just back on the pill and still learning.