Randomly met her in a bar, later she slid into my DMs and we've sent a few messages back and forth. It's at the point where I'd normally set a time and place to get together, but my logistics and schedule suck right now.

Old me would have said some vague "we should do something sometime" bs or just kept chatting endlessly. I know the answer is probably just to move on and forget about her. But is there any middle way? Or is there always just a small window and if you miss it it's gone?