Summary: This is my first post here, but I've been lurking for about 6 months now reading sidebar material and the contributions of others. This is just a story of how even a somewhat seemingly decent thing can turn into fucking shambles and even continue to affect your life long after things are over.

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I had initiated contact with a girl I went to high school with over Facebook messenger. It was a very aggressive approach starting with a few quick exchanges of some small talk and me immediately proposing a trip out of town for the weekend to attend a concert. She agreed to meet me out for a drink and plan the trip. So the first meeting of many occurs. During these meetings I apply my game as I usually do. One thing leads to another and at the end of our third meeting she throws her clothes off and jumps right on my dick in the middle of a movie on my couch. She is definitely an HB8 with a very high sex drive. Keep in mind I've been holding a very nice frame all the way up until this point which is demonstrated by her making the first contact because she couldn't take the tension any longer. I love making them beg for it. Anyways, the sex is phenomenal and this initial contact continues leading to more nights out, road-trips and overall great times.

The sex was so captivating because I was able to watch her take her birth control and was able to cum inside her as much as I wanted. I know this is ultimately what hooked me, as I usually operate with a hard hat and don't take that route. The incredible sex continued to flow and so did more nights out, roadtrips, birthdays together and eventually spending thanksgiving together where we met each others families. In between all of these highs, I was holding frame and working on ignoring the lows and shit tests she would bring to the table.

I want to state that this is also a girl who had a three year affair with her married college professor,(huge red flag) but the player in me thought I could handle all the baggage and crazy she was bringing to the table. We reach roughly the 4 to 5 month mark of doing our thing and I'll admit, by this point I was completely caught up in the pussy. She fucked like an absolute champ and was submissive in the bedroom.

Things start go extremely south the night of my company Christmas party. I invite her just thinking it was really no big deal, we'll have some drinks and get a hotel afterwards to fuck. She shows up and meets all of my coworkers at our dinner table. Within 10 minutes of meeting everyone she gives me this fucked up look, she was a ball of nerves as it was, and says basically in so many words she's abandoning ship. Huge blow to the ego to have to take your date outside and sort out bullshit when its the first time you bring her around. After talking for roughly 20 minutes I begin to lose frame and show signs of emotional investment in her (horrible idea). She ends up leaving and I follow my co-workers to the bar for some drinks. I call her after the bar and tell her we'll just have to talk about shit later.

Fast forward a couple weeks after minimal contact I agree to meet her for New Years. We go out to eat and catch a movie. We have a make-out sesh for the ball drop and head home. I attempt to initiate sex and she goes cold. I knew at this point it was game over. I drop her off at home and head to my place. At this point I can't believe my streak of fun and great sex is ending (it always does).

So contact ceases for awhile. She makes some small talk here and there but I understand its no use. I eventually go completely cold and cut her off social media as well as any other form of communication. Fast forward 5 months. I have family with a vacation home in North Carolina and end up taking a group of roughly 10 people down to party for the 4th of July weekend. She happens to be friends with some of the girls that came down. Well, as women usually do these girls decided to put multiple pictures up on Instagram of all the fun they were having.

I had also taken her down to this vacation home as well. She sees the pictures on Instagram and immediately starts commenting on them (knowing they were hanging with me) OMG, We all need to go together!....typical female shit. I guess this is getting a little drawn out and the moral of this fucking story is I'm still putting up with bullshit related to a four month fling that is affecting my current social circles and events. Currently the most annoying thing in the world because she's going out of her way to make herself relevant to things that she could've given two fucks about prior to our run-in.

AWALT, don't fuck the crazy one in the group and don't lose your frame.