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I totally agree with maybe 85% of what is said here, but I feel like the last 15% is a bit extreme.

Polandsprangs

July 13, 2015
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Title I totally agree with maybe 85% of what is said here, but I feel like the last 15% is a bit extreme.
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Polandsprangs

Upvotes 4
Comments 29
Date July 13, 2015 3:32 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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Comments

[–]Modredpillschool 44 points45 points46 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

All women won't fuck you over. But they could. And your job is to prepare yourself and protect yourself from the what-ifs.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

But they could

And would sleep that night too. They all have the mental capacity to blow up a relationship and justify doing it.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yep. For example, my girl just cheated on me last night with one of my friends.

I honestly didn't expect it but through the theory I've learned here and studying stoicism, I could honestly care less.

On to the next. Don't let anyone get you down and always be prepared.

[–]Iceman3514 5 points5 points5 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

How do you deal with that image? It is driving me insane.

My girl cheated on me with a tall lanky fuck, still in school, and smokes. (I'm a jacked engineer that plays sports -_-)

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I mean it's obviously not a pretty image and it doesn't help when one of my other friends sent me a picture of it happening but tbh I just don't give a fuck.

It sucks when women betray us for people we perceive to be less than we are, but we cannot control their decisions. The only decision making I control is my own.

If she wants to fuck up everything meaningful we had for a drunk hook up with some little shit who I thought was my friend, she's not worth my time. And trust me when I say my time is fucking valuable. Onward is the only way, fuck 'em.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So much respect. I would not be handling this as well as you are.

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.

[–]aphelion3342 19 points20 points21 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for your concern, give us an update in 6 months

[–]my_redpill_account 11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You may never see it but there are plenty of guys here that don't take it to the extremes because well, they don't voice it.

There are things here that won't/don't apply to me. We're all different. You take what you want out of the RP.

[–]magus678 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am in a similar boat. My main cause for optimism is that, at its core, RP is about not flinching from hard truths, and as long as that remains true, I can find a place here.

I think the strong majority of posters are committed to that maxim, and I happen to believe the lesser undercurrents of the sub will be selected out over time due to this.

And honestly, if you ever find yourself somewhere that you agree with everyone 100%, you should leave it anyway. Real boats rock.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 25 points26 points27 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Our universities have a habit of producing whiny pedantic fucks such as yourself. Every university discussion class ever is based around asking 21 year old know nothings to voice their meaningless opinions on shit they could never firmly grasp.

Hey guys what do you think of Hobbes Leviathan? Then a bunch of children parrot some half assed bullshit they got from Spark Notes, Cliff Notes and the Calvin and Hobbes Anthology.

That's exactly whats happening here. Your offering your literary criticusm as if The Red Pill is some University Class with RedPillSchool as the department head and Professor LubeOil holding regular office hours.

Its not. The Red Pill is 120 thousand men from across the world of all ages, cultures and backgrounds. No one here is in 100% agreement with all of the content because by virtue of its diversity it's inherently contradictory.

Also a lot of our members are young angry high testosterone men who write angry shit. Eighteen year olds are angsty as fuck because they are eighteen year olds. Their experiences are just as valid as anyone elses.

So in conclusion if you have valuable content please contribute it. If you only have half assed criticism submit it to your chubby sociology TA in the form of a thought paper.

[–]1User-31f64a4e 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well said.
I agree with your call for meaningful content, and add that the OP skirts dangerously close to concern trolling.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

ALL women are evil monsters who just can't help but fuck you over if they catch a whiff of weakness on you.

That's almost right except that's not evilness. Think about it: would you go ahead with a girl who suddenly starts getting fat and develops acne after the first week you fuck her? Or month? Year? I would not and certainly women with self respect would not do the same with weak, clueless men neither.

pepper some "BP" stuff in there

Romanticism and humanity is not "BP stuff". No one is advocating being a stone faced chump. Life's just a joke and we are just a bunch of primates. It is not worth not taking it lighthearted and people usually learn that after getting over the "anger period". The difference is a "beta" does such things for affirmation from a woman and for self proof while normally a man should do such stuff for his own pleasure.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Not getting fat, developing acne (after puberty) etc is rather easy though. And even when she does, the fix is simple and easy. Keeping your shit together while you are juggling a job, education, shit tests, smv maintenance-ing is a whole lot harder. Recovering from that takes effort and energy.

[–]RPmatrix 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For example I'll see a thread about how this one guy's wife cheated on him, or another lady divorced her husband and took everything, and suddenly ALL women are evil monsters who just can't help but fuck you over if they catch a whiff of weakness on you

you didn't see a thread like that here, if so please link it, otherwise take you're concern trolling elsewhere thanks

matrix

[–]S74RK 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course some bitches are crazy, but if your just lookin to get laid then who gives a fuck. If you're looking for a LTR then quit goin to scummy bars and clubs where girls are trying to strut their stuff for the alpha male only to "settle" for what they can get.

Except this behavior is becoming more and more prevalent even in normal girls in the West - and by extension, the world. It's like a disease, and it doesn't take much to spread. In a group of girls, say there's one who has daddy issues (FYI - at a 50% divorce rate and rising, there are lots of daddy issue girls out there...). Said girl will relay her adventures of promiscuity and night life to her other friends. You're probably thinking, "well not every girl is like that". Sure, not yet.

But how about those other girls? The "bad apple" will trigger envy in a part of the others' brains - hypergamy doesn't turn off. Wow that Chad guy she's talking about seems fun. Next thing you know, that group of friends is going out for girl's night, pre-drinking, letting random dudes grind up on them, and eventually hooking up. Never mind that they have bfs.

TRP teaches you to be vigilant in the face of a declining culture where anything could happen, at higher rates than ever before. Some of us with more extreme perspectives may have just seen more than you have.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, the lessons I've gleaned over the years are.

  • Be confident

Don't get over-extended, in debt, buy shit you don't need to impress people you don't like. You can't live w/o a job for some months, you're a slave and that will reflect in your behavior.

Confidence is capacity; capability to do what you need and want to do independently of others demands and desires.

  • It's a game of numbers; Jody with little game approaches 150 women a week, while Chuck is a natural, but can only muster one approach every 2 weeks ... who's doing it right? Who's learning and having fun?

  • Be protected.

Condom, sure, but have your wealth dispersed and not all under your direct ownership. Have skills that are marketable anywhere on this planet, so you can go anywhere should your current situation become intolerable.

You marry, she drives a jalopy and you live in a house owned by a trust; any RP man if he does marry, should greet his wife's words of "I'm not happy; I want a divorce" with an instant, uncontrollable erection, and he should be nailing someone else (preferably friends of hers) within 48 hours, not responding with typical Beta crying, Lamentations, and apologies.

Dunno if this post is relevant - might be the Sam Adams talking, but life's a whole lot less serious when no one can put a knife to your throat; not your spouse, not your employer, not the government.

At one point I looked forward to a girl threatening to dump me.1

[Reminds me]

  • Always keep your pipeline full; flirt, tease, circulate. Get names, get numbers, stay in practice.

You get the speech from your SO, ideally as soon as you understand the babble that you're getting dumped, pull your phone and start calling your potentials and set up coffee/drink dates, in front of her.

If you're this prepared, you can call this Supernova game.

  1. ... as I was ready so jump on another within 4 hours; she had indicated her willfulness and I was ready to launch. Sadly, I never got that chance to walk out during the dump speech. I think she could sense how I was ready for it, and ready to act.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is why inexperienced people shouldn't post on here and there's even a stickied thread now. A lot of post on here are giving bad advice. Just because something bad happened to one dude doesn't mean it will happen to you. But these bad post come from pissed off Bros saying my woman did, so will yours. And rookies will believe anything they read.

AWALT doesn't mean your woman will, but they are programmed to do so

[–]redambience 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One of the core tenants of life is weeding through the bullshit to find what applies best to yourself. It applies to everything, including TRP, and including itself.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Expect the best but prepare for the worst. Capitalize on what comes.

-Zig Ziglar

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Didn't I just tempban you for moral lectures? And now I find you're concern trolling as well.

Your 2 cents is overpriced. It would be overpriced at zero cents. No one here gives a crap about your opinion, because you're a novice posting basic questions on asktrp.

It's good that you're here, but you need to understand the culture. You are not a special unique snowflake whose opinion everyone needs to hear. You're just another student who needs to sit down, shut up, and learn.

When you have something to teach, then you'll be ready to make posts on the main sub.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

suddenly ALL women are evil monsters who just can't help but fuck you over if they catch a whiff of weakness on you.

This is a stage of TRP and is necessary for some.

If you're looking for a LTR then quit goin to scummy bars and clubs where girls are trying to strut their stuff for the alpha male only to "settle" for what they can get.

This has been said over and over again?

Keep doin RP stuff, but every once in a while pepper some "BP" stuff in there.

This has also been said over and over again?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Welcome to any group on the internet

[–]fatkawk 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At the end of the day, red pill boils down to is: desire cannot be negotiated. No matter how many times you vacuum or how many flowers you buy her.

All it takes is a wild Chad to appear and you're sweet, little princess is choking on his cock in a dirty bathroom stall.

[–]PetrolFlavored -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Every once in while pepper some "BP" stuff in there.

Yeah, your whole post is peppered with "BP stuff".

Take your cosmo advice elsewhere.

[–]crack_tobi -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your 2cent will not mean squat, when the woman in question has decided that her feels are so and so now.

Always be prepared.

Anyway, am I the only one who sees no point in the post. You are basically confirming what is preached here with regards to LTR.

My 1cent.

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]crack_tobi 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Learn to spell before try to find the unicorn of your dreams.

Fun to troll isn't it?

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]crack_tobi 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you are not, please read the sidebar with the examples and relate them with the experiences in your life. I'm sure it is not possible that you have not been through any of such experiences. Learn and live. Thank you.

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