Older guys

AlarmingFacts · 2020-12-25T17:24:43+00:00

“Girls just want to have fun”

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-12-25T18:58:34+00:00

It’s less about individual women, and more about fishing from the pool of young women who dig older men.

Older Men, Younger Women: How & When It Can Work

-For Older Men who prefer Younger Women, and vice versa.

Older Men, Younger Women, Part II

-More Fun With Younger Women.

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ReeeeDrumpf · 2020-12-25T22:26:19+00:00

1) Have a career

2) Have a nice car and a house or condo.

3) Lift and be in great shape

4) Dress well

5) Act like a man who knows what he likes and wants

Basically, be everything all the immature 18-30 year old men around here don't have.

2020-12-25T19:46:18+00:00

You don’t spend money on them, it’s just like when you’re younger. Then again, I’m at the peak of my career so $50 or $100 or even $150 is mostly nothing. So you spend money on yourself and the girl gets to enjoy it too.

I’ve fucked for 35 years now. I know my way around a pussy. It’s super easy to get them addickted.

As a grown ass man, it’s super easy to keep a 19yo happy. A 19yo big problem is “I’m hungry”

Also, as an older guy I have an extreme amount of IDGAF and abundance mentality. You just shop around until you find a girl who is into what you are.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-12-25T17:29:05+00:00

back in the ole days having a young bitch was a notch on the belt. now a days its a huge liability, these fucking young millennials are fucking nuts.

KuritaT · 2020-12-25T18:43:55+00:00

A lot of women prefer older guys because they think of them as more mature, more experienced, discreet and less clingy.

Financial aspect doesn't change one bit, you don't pay for her shit. Ever. Except if you want things to go to shit, then pay for her as much as you want.

kclanton80 · 2020-12-25T22:39:39+00:00

know going in to it that for some girls your age will be a turn off, and for some girls it will be a TURN ON.

As with all aspects of dating, pursue targets that have a high level.of interest in you from the start, and leave the ones who are lukewarm alone.

Maximise your fitness grooming and style. Women don't want a fat older guy. They want a fit,.stylish, wise, still attractive older guy.

Do not act young, or dress young.....they are dating you because you are older. If they want someone young,.they will date someone young.

You don't have to splurge on them financially but, take them on fun dates and introduce them to new things. They aren't going to have sky high expectations.....older women want steak and wine on a first date.

My last 22 year old liked going for bubble tea and she always paid for me......🤷🏾‍♂️.I'm 40.

michael_in_chains · 2020-12-25T17:38:40+00:00

Not an old guy, but I would say mainly looks, dominance and status matter.

SteveSan82 · 2020-12-26T00:05:51+00:00

Approaching them. That's really it. I did it when I was working a sucky job and still got them. Obviously I knew the likelihood of an ltr was low but I wasn't after one anyways.

Like any other women you approach. Confidence, game and wearing clean clothes.

2020-12-26T13:24:00+00:00

Staying in shape, having no expectations of a relationship, being a fun guy and not a boring older one on her eyes are the keys.

A couple years back I was 33. I was visiting my old university because at the time I was interested in pursuing a degree in a different program than the one I graduated in 12 years earlier.

I was amazed at how the University had changed and spent a great deal of time touring.

On my tour I came accross a very attractive 20 year old woman, I walked right next to her smiled and said “your pretty hot”. She smiled an said “your pretty hot too”. I asked her if she would give an older man a tour of the bar. She said sure, we ended up going out a few times.

Earlier that same day , I visited the computer lab, I had an energy drink with me. I got up and went over to a woman who turned out to be 23 and told her I needed to go to the washroom, but I trusted that Tatanya Ali from Fresh Prince could take good care of my drink. She laughed and was like “wtf how old do you think I am”. I laughed and said “old enough”. She laughed so hard and slapped the table. When I returned we talked for about half an hour and I got her number too. Ended up dating her on the side for about 4 months

Moral of the story, be good looking, keep in shape, be fun and not boring. That’s how you can do well with the younger ladies.

throw-away-1709 · 2020-12-25T21:37:48+00:00

Ok.

Where is the question?

You find them anywhere.

I am 58. She 21.

So?

Go for the best.

You should be at least good in shape.

I am 6'2.5 and 275lbs @ 18% bf.

Money?

She does not have to work, has a small trust fund too.

I dont have to work, wealthy.

Social circles is a good aproach.

Title	Older guys
Author	new_champion278
Upvotes	13
Comments	21
Date	December 25, 2020 5:21 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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