Request for advice - girl wants me to be the boss. I want her to have a life.

[deleted] · 2015-07-19T13:35:34+00:00

Try imposing your limits and gradually extend them if you have time. If she insists on interfering with your life, next her. Hard...

And there is a sub called asktrp where people can post their silly questions. The main sub is not for asking advice but discussions and content.

let_terror_reign · 2015-07-19T13:55:35+00:00

This goes on asktrp, not here

recon_johnny · 2015-07-19T14:24:59+00:00

Agree on the asktrp comments.

This is classic female behavior. Literally everything you say is exactly what is told here from time immemorial.

She doesn't want a beta bitch (that's you, pal) who gives her everything she THOUGHT she wanted. She fucked Chad, she's settling for you. And she's pissed about it.

Ego, dude. Lose it. All of this shit is on you. If you were a better man, then this wouldn't be like it is.

There's so much in the way of sidebar and lurker stuff that has been said before. And, look, I'm older than you. By almost a decade. Age has nothing to do with it.

I believe you've read this sub, think it's good. You haven't swallowed the pill to see what you need to do. Starting TODAY: eat better, lift. Stop the bullshit communication with her. Get out of the house and do shit without her, and don't tell her. The bitch is already gone, looking for the next one. That needs to be your mindset--get yourself better.

Read and adopt. Take your life back and move on.

This whole fucking post reeks of BP mentality.

[deleted] · 2015-07-19T13:52:10+00:00

do not feel bad about anything, their emotions are completely different to ours. saying no to them does not feel the same as when they say no to you. no to them is never rejection, it simply adds to the larger vibe of communication. think big

[deleted] · 2015-07-19T15:00:47+00:00

.. Go back to your life. The fact that you realize that you're losing independence is a good enough indicator that something's wrong. Can't let yourself lose your frame just because of one girl; the results will be devastating. BTW there is no such thing as 'bringing her back to sanity', because once your frame is gone you're fucked.

MachiavellianRed · 2015-07-19T16:50:38+00:00

/r/asktrp is the sub to ask for advice.

Not here.

[deleted] · 2015-07-19T15:59:14+00:00

So, you're 43. I am a bit older.

In my experience what you're going through is normal, it has happened to me, and to some degree it still happens. Let me explain;

You have certain habits that have brainwashed you for decades, let's call these the Blue Pill habits. Now you have managed to rid of them and become Thundercock, the Thundercock she fell for.
According to TRP she is genetically wired to fall for Thundercock, and yet she's also wired to transform Thundercock into BB.

Add the two together and it is a classic story of a vicious cycle where you we start RP and end up BP, encouraged by her, till the point when she is no longer happy and will seek the next Thundercock/RP.

I am a lot better now, I am pretty much RP, spinning a few plates with 1 main plate, but maintaining TRP frame in the long run requires me a lot of conscious effort that's counter to my habits that I am trying to shake off.

Keep up the work, you can't undo decades of indoctrination in a short time; at the same time don't stop improving.

Sir_Shitlord_focker · 2015-07-19T14:08:23+00:00

Don't dump her, try to downgrade her to plate, if she balks then she'll end the relationship herself.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-07-19T14:08:57+00:00

Let her be sad and pouty, long as she's not being a bitch or shit testing you.

Give her attention when you can bring the Thunder. ;) Make her deserve it.

Title	Request for advice - girl wants me to be the boss. I want her to have a life.
Author	sevans105
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	July 19, 2015 1:32 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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