She's contradicting herself. She isn't attracted to 99 % of guys, despite their personality. But then again, she isn't picky about looks like "other girls" want men for their personality instead?

moorekom · 2018-08-22T13:23:45+00:00

I always compare modern dating to drug addiction and nowhere is it more relevant than this woman right here. Just like an addict needs a stronger fix the next time, this woman (and her brethren) needs something extraordinary to even become interested the next time. You have to be uber alpha in looks, suave, status etc to pique her interest and you have to more alpha than the previous alpha she knew. And she will sit there judging this guy oblivious to the fact that when she takes her time judging this guy to see if he's worthy of her, some younger broad is going to be more receptive to him and possibly get him too.

She mentions being attracted to people after getting to know them a lot. While that's very common, her criteria is what sets her apart. Or, on the other hand, makes her a typical woman with standards she could not afford.

She's attracted to hot guys who look stunning or she's attracted to people over time because of their personality. Do I need to spell out the strategy here? Either case, you need to be extraordinary. And what does she bring to the table exactly? Not innocence. Not submissiveness. Not even compliance. Not pleasant company. Not feminine energy. Not support. Is it any wonder she's alone? And to some extent, she knows the issue. She just cannot accept her approach won't work for her. Her ego is more important to her than her happiness. She won't take a chance and try to be actually happy but she will sit there and try to justify to herself why you won't be suitable for her to cushion the fact that her approach will be rejected by you. I see a lot of women use this sour grapes strategy. Especially as they have more mileage in them. We all know where this is going. It ain't going to be pretty. But people like her would rather blindly go down that path to preserve their worthless egos than to actually do something to help themselves.

RedditRouge00 · 2018-08-22T12:28:17+00:00

Even another woman pointed out her hypocrisy, but gets downvoted to oblivion. She can’t feel attracted to anyone but Chad, betabuxs out of luck. She’ll be alone for a very long time.

where_muh_good_mens · 2018-08-22T12:27:24+00:00

This ones' hamster has sabotaged her own ability to get with a man. She isn't "demisexual" or whatever they are calling prude bitch nowadays, she is just too picky. She needs to have that perfect man, but if he existed, much younger, hotter, less bitchy women would already have him. Dateover30 crowd doesn't seem to understand that she is ruining her ability to hold on to "decent and attractive guys", so they just double down on their praise and excuses for why she blows through men like a factory assembly line.

Lol @ that flair "32 teetering on the brink", bitch you fell over the brink 1000 leagues ago

JJ3314 · 2018-08-22T13:49:59+00:00

Apart from the famous tendency for women to view most men as below average in appearance, I think she’s attracted to inaccessibility. When a guy is inaccessible, and his attractive qualities are revealed, she responds to them. Those same guys on a date? She’ll cut things off (after he pays for a couple of dates of course).

I knew a woman like this who finally got married. A year into the marriage, her husband told her he never loved her. Life’s funny like that sometimes.

loneliness-inc · 2018-08-22T14:24:56+00:00

I am not attracted to 99% of guys I meet or even go on dates with.

😸😹😻😼😽🙀😿😾

One thing I've noticed is that I care a LOT less about conventional good looks than most girls I know.

I care a LOT le$$ about conven$$$ional good look$$$ than mo$$$t guuurll$$$$ I know becau$$$e it i$$$n't really about the look$$$ after all.

So maybe that's the trouble.

You'd think.

I'm not picking someone based on visual criteria, but rather, I'm "turned on" by things that take time to discover.

Ahh, what a virtuous woman of Valor. Thanks for signaling this to us.

Sense of humor, kindness, intelligence, good writing skills, a certain lack of vanity.... I also have some weird turn-offs (if a guy follows the progress of professional sports teams--I just... no.).

Not at all like the other girls. Oh no! No girl in the history of the world ever set these criteria. EVER!!!

[deleted] · 2018-08-22T14:36:29+00:00

Lots of hypergamy, not to mention with at least a silver medal in the hamster Olympics with all the self deception going on.

Here we go again. I've just ended yet another fledgling relationship because I wasn't attracted to him (and was actually increasingly repulsed and annoyed by him, even though he's a decent guy who will probably marry the very next person he dates... because that's what always happens when I dump people).

So these men are highly desirable or at least desirable enough for someone else to snatch them up immediately, yet they aren't good enough for you. This should tell you something about yourself, but I'm sure you'll just crank up the hypergamy and go full blast on your expectations instead. By the way, how many times has this actually happened to you?

To put it bluntly: I am not attracted to 99% of guys I meet or even go on dates with, including guys who I'd describe as "really great" and "smart" and "nice" and "a total catch!"

This proves basic red pill wisdom that when a girl calls you things like "nice" or "smart" or "husband material", it usually means that she isn't attracted to you. FYI when a girl is into you she will call you "hot", "sexy". Basically adjectives that describe your appearance, rather than your personality.

Sometimes I will become attracted to someone after knowing them for a while. (This isn't usually in a dating situation, though. It's just a coworker or acquaintance thing--and those people aren't usually single anyway. Oops!)

So you're attracted to what's not yours and you can't have. Hypergamy intensifies.

I have occasionally been attracted to people within 24 hours of meeting them, but that happens so rarely that I really can't count on it to guide my dating decisions.

Yes. Those 1% guys you say you're attracted to are mathematically harder to stumble on. Don't hamster this away, hypergamy is guiding your dating decisions whether you like it or not. Isn't this why your're dumping guys? You aren't attracted to them? This isn't somehow a separate issue just because it happens less frequently.

One thing I've noticed is that I care a LOT less about conventional good looks than most girls I know. So maybe that's the trouble. I'm not picking someone based on visual criteria, but rather, I'm "turned on" by things that take time to discover. Sense of humor, kindness, intelligence, good writing skills, a certain lack of vanity...

Oh please. You were literally just going on about how you are attracted to some people within the day of meeting them. You were also attracted to "acquaintances" and taken men. How well could you possibly know them? Stop virtue signalling and hamstering away what's really going on.

Am I demisexual? Maybe.

Made up words invented to make you feel better about your own nature won't save you from it.

But once in a blue moon, I'll like someone within an hour of meeting them. The other side of that coin is that I've got lots of wonderful male friends I simply never will feel attracted to. I wish I did.

"I have lots of beta orbiters that don't give me the tingles. If only I was attracted to one of them because the 1% alpha males that make me wet are so much harder to come by"

Meanwhile, I know girls who always like at least ONE guy at every party. I envy that so much.

That's called a slut, dear. Not to be envied by anyone.

AllahHatesFags · 2018-08-22T15:36:53+00:00

She says that it is very rare that she is ever attracted to somebody until she gets to know them really well but most guys won't even get a second date regardless of their personality. If you read between the lines, she is admitting to getting fucked-and-chucked by uber-Chads while keeping beta orbiters in the friend-zone to "suddenly be attracted to their personalities" (read: wallets) once the Chads have moved on.

BluepillProfessor · 2018-08-22T17:55:48+00:00

When you have had sex with Chad NFL linebacker and get thrown around like a ragdoll, pumped, and dumped by a 6'5" bodybuilder, a regular guy does nothing for you! Who knew? This is the end game of hypergamy. Only attracted to the 1% while being a bottom 50% girl- likely even for a 32 y/o- is not a good recipe for happiness or success.

Still I think the girl should be applauded. Most women will latch onto a man they find repulsive and fake it just long enough to check into the /deadbedrooms followed by divorce/rape cash and prizes. She still has time to execute her strategy and almost assuredly will! Take this as a warning guys. This is how they think. This is what they do. Entering these dangerous waters is one thing. Staying is completely another. I have 3 words for these women: Pump n Dump!

I literally CANNOT kiss someone unless I'm madly in love with them. Anything less and I feel super grossed out. :(

She will be a wife someday and will spend her time tormenting her inadequate husband day and night.

demisexual

What a total and complete crock of shit! Let me go through the basic typology with definitions.

Demisexual = frigid, manipulative bitch.

Pomosexual = Confused and/or mentally ill.

Asexual = frigid bitch who was probably sexually abused and hates/fears men (female)

Asexual = Incel (Male)

Pansexual = Slut seeking pump and dump

Omnisexual = Slut, seeking Chad

Polysexual = Whore (female)

Polysexual = Cuck (Male)

Objectosexual = Freak

Autosexual = Incel

Graysexual = Wife of a husband without credible Dread

Blissbynature · 2018-08-22T14:24:43+00:00

A victim of her own emotional mind. Poor thing.

philosophunc · 2018-08-22T12:19:43+00:00

Shes basically an elitist. Shes too good for everybody. She may have that narcissistic thing too where she believes she should be amongst the celebrities or something.

frikabg · 2018-08-22T15:26:26+00:00

If you don't like 99% of the men out there that is fine... your body your choice but don't fucking whine and complain about it this is literally an issue caused by you so what the fuck do you expect people to do? Solve your own issues psycho and get the fuck out!

[deleted] · 2018-08-22T14:55:39+00:00

Ah thanks for reminding me I need to schedule my next radiation appt.

mitzibishi · 2018-08-22T15:15:08+00:00

In the comments: "Sometimes a great personality and certain traits win over"

In other words monaaay and status.

askmrcia · 2018-08-22T20:04:12+00:00

I don't know how I found that sub, but when I did, that entire sub is the most depressing shit i ever read. And that's saying alot considering the stuff I read on 4chan.

I always wondered why mgtow, redpill and incels subbed got attacked, but that one never did.

Anyways after reading the post, I really want to know what these women currently look like.

I mean this in all seriousness, whenever I see posts written by women on anything related to dating I take it with a grain of salt. I bet my life savings that she left key details out and I'm almost positive that she is the one getting dumped instead of her dumping guys.

She is most likely saying she is not attracted to most guys to make herself feel better about herself for being 30 and single.

And anyone that knows any women in their 30s can confirm this.

I was out with two 30 year olds two weeks ago. After a few drinks they both started talking about how happy they are not being single. But anyone who was reading their body language and tone of voice could tell they were really bothered by the fact that they are not married and their time is running up. Because if they were happy about being single they wouldn't have went on a hour rant about all their failed relationships.

Yea if you're happy being single then why the hell are you on multiple dating sites?

[deleted] · 2018-08-22T19:43:03+00:00

One of her turn-offs is if you follow your favorite sports team. Wtf.

[deleted] · 2018-08-22T20:19:10+00:00

awalt but most don't admit it

Ghustgan · 2018-08-22T21:12:33+00:00

Funny how all the comments telling her that she may be part of the problem are getting downvoted. Figures.

Holy crap I just noticed this is datingover30. This crap just became hilarious. Enjoy your cats.

Cursedpurpose · 2018-09-02T19:34:20+00:00

She likes the temporary high of rejecting men to satisfy her ego. This is why traditionally we don't let women choose. They can't even decide if they're hungry let alone with whom they want to spend the rest of their lives.

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