Women are entitled to your time, effort, and attention.

Devilsgun · 2018-05-30T11:23:06+00:00

Just dudes being... uh... Chicks

Afghan_Whig · 2018-05-30T11:29:38+00:00

To be honest, I think she has a very valid point. One thing about dating these days is that people do cancel last minute, both men and women. I really don't think this thread fits in with this sub. She's 20. She's not a 45 year old, post wall "career woman" who is wondering why no one will commit to more than a pump and dump. Or 28 with 3 kids wondering why no man can handle how strong and independent she is while also looking for a daddy for them all.

tankfox · 2018-05-30T17:06:07+00:00

Everyone here is missing the deeper irony; she sets up a backup date. Who she then bails on if the primary comes through.

What this means is that she is primarily the backup date.

SirKolbath · 2018-05-30T14:08:48+00:00

Huh. Isn’t there a movement called #wastehistime?

Fuck you, lady. What comes around apparently goes around.

BewareTheOldMan · 2018-05-30T11:07:00+00:00

So she’s upset people she meets online turn out to be flakes? That’s par for the course for online dating. If she’s not bad looking, she should have no problem meeting people in person.

polakfury · 2018-05-30T18:22:59+00:00

" Since it has happened to me before, I often make a back up plan to meet other people. "

And what if the guy doesen't cancel, what with the backup then ?

antek_asing · 2018-05-30T12:15:08+00:00

that's life, shit happens.

RapeMaster88 · 2018-05-30T14:02:45+00:00

Life is full of things that dont go your way. Seems for this young chick its a new thing to realise

RPBulletDodger · 2018-05-30T18:19:45+00:00

#WasteHerTime2018

Ray_pinasses1210 · 2018-05-30T20:38:34+00:00

Ahh yes. The soft bigotry of low expectations

If you’re a man and you ever complain about being treated badly by women you’re:

-entitled -bitter about an ex -a misogynist -part of the problem -need to get over your hatred of women

If you’re a woman and you ever complain about how men treat you:

-patriarchy -unfair gender roles -unfair beauty standards -something something misogyny -“I shouldn’t have to settle for anything less” entitlement

Business as usual in the western world folks

Ghustgan · 2018-05-30T21:31:28+00:00

That very first comment talks about people wasting her time. How? What sorcery is this that somebody wastes your time by not doing anything with you? It's not like she got stood up and waited for hours or anything.

where_muh_good_mens · 2018-06-01T02:22:20+00:00

This comment resonated with me:

The irony of the situation is that the ones who won't do this to you are the ones you'll probably never give a chance to.

She chooses Chad. Chad gets a better option. She is pissed Chad passed her up. She feels used because she spent her precious youth hearing about Chads tossed lettus and salad dressing jokes.

If she just chooses blokes that would be happy to take her out, she would never get canceled on. Thirsty betas step over their own mothers to get a whiff. Chad steps over thirsty hogs to get anything but a thirsty hog.

Venny_1 · 2018-06-01T11:23:34+00:00

Since it has happened to me before, I often make a back up plan to meet other people.

So she herself is ready to flake on one party, but detests it with a grueling hatred if it happens to her. Hypocrisy, thy name is tinderella #24530295

Title	Women are entitled to your time, effort, and attention.
Author	sleepyweaselisawake
Upvotes	73
Comments	33
Date	May 30, 2018 11:00 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/8n7nal/women_are_entitled_to_your_time_effort_and/
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