[19F] "I love my boyfriend but he's lazy, doesn't have a job, won't take me out on dates, he's selfish in bed, and I don't know how much longer I can deal with it." Or just another blueprint for how to be the jerk that women love and get laid. (r/askwomenadvice, follow-up post in comments)

kevin32 · 2018-05-12T10:46:01+00:00

Westernhagen · 2018-05-12T13:26:28+00:00

My boyfriend doesn’t treat me as a “sex toy” he puts SO much effort into our relationship emotionally.

I don't even know what the hell that means. He has her come over to his place, he bangs her, and then he rolls off and goes to sleep. But somehow she's getting the happyfeelz!

I profoundly hope he doesn't fulfill his promise to "be more beta"...

BewareTheOldMan · 2018-05-13T05:45:32+00:00

Age 19 is when this type of woman should be looking for men who demonstrate HUSBAND and FATHER characteristics and traits. Instead - this young woman is lured by this aspiring "musician" who exerts more effort toward his music than women.

In a way, I understand this young man's focus as a musician and his disinterest in a serious LTR. The interesting thing is that if he does well as a musician, this woman is yesterday's news.

Even worse is the reality there are several young men her age that would participate in ALL the activities she's literally begging from her "boyfriend" and treat her well without hesitation, but she has no interest in these men.

Good Men are available to her - especially at such a young age, but the selfish, unemployed, loser musician has her focus versus hardworking, disciplined, self-initiated , responsible, respectful, and loyal young men...who already demonstrate ALL the better characteristics and traits associated with responsibility and accountability.

It won't be until the musician runs her ragged, continues to focus on himself, and eventually discards this woman will she turn to the class of men she should have pursued from the beginning.

It will be at that point where the wasted years with Mr. Musician will reflects her looks/SMV, frustration, and emotional baggage - and will be ruined for a positive relationship or marriage. It should also be at this point where men who know better respond with a hardcore "NO" when she decides to come calling for Beta Bob, white knight savior.

...makes you wonder who in the hell is advising these young women and do they have any RP parents?

Cristoff13 · 2018-05-13T09:30:55+00:00

He's probably decent looking or better. But more importantly, he sounds narcissistic as fuck. He doesn't care about her feelings at all. This combination of decent looks plus narcissism is like catnip to women. The find it addictive.

[deleted] · 2018-05-15T18:27:09+00:00

"FYI: I don’t buy snacks or any of that shit when going into the movies so I’m not buying you popcorn or anything. I don’t mean to sound like a douche but I never get shit at the movies”"

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