This multireddit is a collection of posts from various subs across Reddit that focus on dating and relationships, and where Carol can often be found complaining about her woes. It was created for those who would like to contribute appropriate content to our sub, and is constantly updated with new posts. Here's the multireddit:

r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Multireddit <--- Bookmark now while supplies last!!!

 

Rules for submission:

To maintain a high level of quality content, we will only allow submissions that align with the sidebar rules. Meaning:

  • Posts must show a woman who complains about being single, while also complaining about the jerks she dates, or she rode the cock carousel via lots of casual dating and short-term boyfriends, or she uses bullshit excuses for being single like "school", "career", and "just never found the right guy", or she realizes dating is harder for her now that she's past her prime.

  • Examples: (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)

  • No direct linking to any posts within Reddit. Use archive.is or archive.org to create an archived link, then use that link in your submission. Instructions here.

  • If the submission is a dating profile, then it must show a woman who's either looking for a "Good Man" or a "Real Man" while also complaining about the jerks she used to date, or she wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability, or she's chasing Mr. Tall, Handsome and Successful. The profile must also be a screenshot submitted through Reddit or Imgur, and all personal information such as usernames, real names, email addresses, phone numbers, hometown, school, and place of work must be censored. If your post gets removed, then it's likely for this reason.

 

Using the search box:

A general browsing of the multireddit will show some relevant posts, but it's also cluttered with posts unrelated to our sub's theme. Therefore the search box located at the top-right of the multireddit is useful for finding appropriate content, and it will search for keywords across all subs within the multireddit. Here are a list of search terms Carol can be found saying or is associated with her:

  • "where are all the good men"
  • "where have all the good men gone"
  • "where can I find"
  • "why can't I find"
  • "good man"
  • "good guy"
  • "real man"
  • "decent guy"
  • "decent man"
  • "Mr. Right"
  • "Prince Charming"
  • "quality men"
  • "respect"
  • "chivalry"
  • "jerks"
  • "bad boys"
  • "fuck boys"
  • "fuckboys"
  • "players"
  • "assholes"
  • "douchebags"
  • "losers"
  • "wrong men"
  • "wrong guys"
  • "not my type"
  • "dating"
  • "online dating"
  • "relationship"
  • "dateable"
  • "undateable"
  • "pregnant"
  • "knocked up"
  • "single"
  • "single girl"
  • "single woman"
  • "single mom"
  • "single mother"
  • "independent woman"
  • "spinster"
  • "cat lady"
  • "marriage"
  • "lonely"
  • "alone"
  • "depressed"
  • "afraid"
  • "insecure"
  • "scared"
  • "terrified"
  • "been hurt"
  • "abused"
  • "heart broken"
  • "cheated on"
  • "dumped"
  • "abusive relationship"
  • "dating is hard"
  • "dating sucks"
  • "might die alone"
  • "been through a lot"
  • "losing hope"
  • "lost hope"
  • "given up"
  • "give up"
  • "tired"
  • "I'm done"
  • "f4m"
  • "f4r"
  • "w4m"
  • "w4r"
  • "Tinder"
  • "Tinder girl"

 

Search box tips:

  • You may have to play around with the words to get different results. For example, in addition to searching "where are all the good men", try "where are all" to get different endings to the question. Instead of searching "decent guy", try "decent men". Removing the "quotes" will return more results.

  • Consider combining search terms such as ("good man" "bad boys") or ("dating" "decent guy") or ("single" "losing hope")

  • You can search specific ages by using terms such as "30F", "30 F" or "30/F". Many posts also have the age and sex reversed so "F30", "F 30" or "F/30". You can then move up or down the age bracket by changing the age and getting new results. Collect them all!

  • The search box generally searches post titles for the keywords. But if you use the parameter selftext: in the search box, it will search post descriptions for keywords. So selftext:"good man" will show posts that have the phrase "good man" in the post description. Also consider combining search terms using the parameter such as selftext:"single" selftext:"losing hope". This will return results that contain the phrases "single" and "losing hope" in the post description.

  • Sometimes it helps to go to specific subreddits and use its search box to find appropriate content.

  • r/r4r has a list of dating subs by region located in its sidebar. Try searching within these subs using either "f4m", "f4r" or "w4m".

  • Don't forget to check the comments section! Many top-level comments are Carols needing to attention-whore with their sob stories.

 

Honorable mentions:

Here are a list of subs that generally won't have as much relevant content with the same frequency as the main list, but it happens in sporadic cases and is worth conducting a search through:

 

Are we missing a sub?

If there's a sub you think should be added to the multireddit, let us know!