"Are there any decent men out there? I've met almost three dozen guys from Tinder. All trash." (r/Tulsa)

ninjabaseballbatman1 · 2017-11-02T22:14:10+00:00

The decent man or "nice guy" is starting to become non existent. All the years of rejection, confusion, insults, ghosted, and being used would make any smart man with dignity and integrity change into something else.

I was once one of those guys but now I don't see a point. I started to only put minimal effort and take what I can get but now even the occasional random hookup isn't as appealing.

I'm not saying men are completely innocent as there are players and douchebags but women choose those kind of guys and really keep them going. They don't want a decent man, they want a man other women want or already have.

Now we are at a point where men are waking up and only doing what gives them results so why would they go back to being the guy that was miserable and getting nothing? But of course women can never see the real issue is them and their logic and actions. And they will never admit to being at a fault for anything because ALL men are pigs.

CujoCrunch · 2017-11-03T02:05:39+00:00

They'll pretend to be into you then when you do sleep with them after knowing them for three days they're already moving on to the next girl.

Tinder > "Knew them" for three days > sex > why no commitment?!

TheAlphaRanger · 2017-11-02T15:04:53+00:00

Well, her first problem is that she's in Oklahoma.

moorekom · 2017-11-02T19:28:14+00:00

Another woman who doesn't want to do anything else other than browse online dating apps.

kevin32 · 2017-11-02T16:37:28+00:00

OP's comments for the lazy:

Honestly it seems like most guys are flakes. They'll pretend to be into you then when you do sleep with them after knowing them for three days they're already moving on to the next girl. I'm beginning to think I'm meant to be alone forever.

Yeah. I've been single for over 5 years and I'm not atrocious looking, independent, and have a good job. I don't know what the hell is going on.

I've met almost three dozen guys from Tinder. All trash.

I slept with 4 of them in the last year

I'm tired of hearing that it's just going to happen. I've spent almost six years "working and focusing on myself" and I see others who are not successful that have men wrapped around their fingers. Something is just not right.

RadicalAsceticMonk · 2017-11-02T18:30:29+00:00

If you're expecting to find true long-term love on a casual-sex app populated by hypergamists, you have no right to be shocked when your expectations don't pan out.

Title	"Are there any decent men out there? I've met almost three dozen guys from Tinder. All trash." (r/Tulsa)
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	26
Comments	14
Date	November 2, 2017 11:05 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/7aarfs/are_there_any_decent_men_out_there_ive_met_almost/
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