I'm now getting to a point in my dating life where I'm becoming pretty good at first dates, but having trouble keeping girls around.

Just recently, I went on 2 dates with 2 separate girls and had sex with both of them. I then had seconds dates with both of the girls and again had sex. However, the one I was most interested in, has seemingly ghosted me.

Back in the day, if I had a good date, I'd hit the girl up sometime the next day telling her I wanted to see her again, with pretty decent success. However, I've been trying to follow Corey Wayne's advice and wait 4-5 days after every hangout before texting again. At least until she starts hitting me up.

As an example, the girl that recently ghosted me, after our first date, I waited 4-5 days before contacting her. She seemed very eager to hang out when I reached out. The next date was at her place, the Saturday before last and we ended up hanging until noon the next day. I then reached out to her that following Thursday via IG, but I don't think she ended up seeing my message. I hit her up again yesterday (Sunday) just asking her about something we had talked about... no reply. She didn't even look at my message.

I can't imagine it was something I did in person. But I can't imagine that she'd just GHOST from me potentially sending a message too late.

tl;dr - really just curious what your dating flow is like? I'm still trying too hard to create the flow instead of just going with the flow. Bonus points if you have some ideas as to why this girl ghosted, or if just something that happens sometimes.