I've gotten comfortable cold approaching ladies on campus. It's going good, I would like some advice on how to handle the super nervous/scared ones.
I'll try to boil down the reactions I get.
1: indifferent, shit tests or not interested, I just keep talking as if she's responding to me.( Some times it works, sometimes I get bored and don't think she's worth my time)
2: jumps right on board, strong eye contact and rapport naturally builds.
3: answers questions, smiles and giggles nervously while looking anywhere but my direction.I can hear her voice crack up when she's reciprocating asking questions.
Type 3 is the one that I'm not sure how to handle, I could easily ask for a # , but from my experience, the texts are I get back are basically ( yes I like you, but I'm terrified to go anywhere with you) .
I like the type 3 personally (they are like puppies from my pov).
Current plan is to build comfort by re-approaching and doing the same till they can handle eye contact for more than 5 sec, then get #.
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