Hey guys. Girl I'm seeing usually is pretty enthusiastic with her texts. I make sure not to text too often, just occasionally and not every day. I stick to logistics mostly and only talk for a bit if she wants to talk (and I limit my time on that).

Emojis have gone missing from her texts when she used to use them and she doesn't write in as enthusiastic of a tone as she used to. But just last night when we were hanging out together and exploring, she mentioned her nipples being hard, a sex toy she had, joked about her boobs (she has a much larger than average bust), told me she sees me as more than a friend, broke her curfew to just stay and talk with me for a couple hours in my car, told me how good I looked (from a sexual attraction standpoint) the conversation had a sexual charge, then we had a great long kiss goodnight and she got tingles (she used more ASD-type vocab to describe what I made her feel like when I asked her if she was alright but she was feeling tingles and I knew it based on what she said) and said our goodbye. She forgot her phone after I kissed her and I had to remind her to get it as she was walking away.

I recognize that I should have escalated more than just a kiss but my car's way too small for that given my size (height wise, not weight wise. I sometimes accidentally hit my head getting in). It was cold and pouring rain outside so we were basically trapped.

I'm thinking that since the texts have dropped in enthusiasm every so slightly, so has her enthusiasm for me. She did say she wanted to see me again last night before she left.

"Watch what she does, not what she says" intetprets the subtleties of the girl's texts as actions, but this girls IRL actions (getting tingles when I kiss her, not moving away when I wrap my arms around her, genuinely laughing when I make shitty jokes/puns, having some sort of twinkly/happy eyes and a smile when I look at her) are different than that lack of enthusiasm in text.

Am I overthinking this?