How can you get increase your social smv, I don’t have a tight click and am more of an outsider when it comes to social groups at the university I go to. For example I have male “friends” that I know but I’m more of a back burner friend. I am pretty independent, work, go to the gym, play sports as a hobby and I do look pretty decently good at the venues I go to. But I don’t get that respect that comes with being a high value person. A lot of people have seen me and know me at the clubs but tend to drift away back to their group after a little bit leaving me alone and having to drift on the the outside of the group I came with. I get a lot of lols at these venues from women but don’t approach, I probably know a few women and have 2 female friends.

I have made friends over the course of my time at uni and gotten more social but I wouldn’t say I’m the most confident person. I have started to have more fun at the clubs recently by dancing and stuff but idk it doesn’t feel like it’s genuine when I know I’m not really apart of the group. Everyone seems to know each other on a more personal level and are more open to staying and chatting and chilling compared to a random like me.

This lack of confidence, lack of inclusion and not getting laid is constantly fucking with me. Game sucks, social skills suck and I’m looking for advice on how to be that guy that women want to meet and men want to know/envy. How did you improve this part of your rp?