This will be a bit of a long post but I will try and summarize it.

So this girl I met on Hinge (She is 33, I am 28.) Had an amazing first date, great chemistry. Fantastic 2nd date, kino, everything. Had sex with her on the 3rd date, and she has been showing very high interest and pursuing me.

The 4th date, we share drinks by her condo pool and later in the day hookup again, but then it gets weird after that. We're having dinner, and she brings up 'relationship' questions such as what am I looking for etc. I give the canned response of "taking my time but open to a relationship if the right girl comes along", and out of nowhere she gets a bit combative saying things like "well you don't seem like you want a relationship. You never text me in between dates, you've never even called me etc", and even saying I "left her hanging" a night we were texting and mind you the conversation dried up and I was out with friends that night... I told her to take it easy, I am still getting to know you. That I am interested but seeing how it goes. She later apologizes for how she was that night.

It's like imposing the role of a boyfriend on me and I barely know this girl... Anyways, I do like this girl a lot so I begin to text her a bit more than I normally do (not excessively, and she also has initiated contact), but I get the feeling things are different... She is now giving shorter replies, and taking way longer to respond. 4 hours for a few. This being after she was complaining about when I go "disappearing for hours". I am sensing a drop in interest all of a sudden when things have been going so well.

I don't know if it's a shit test, games, or what. I haven't been going overboard with texting or supplicating either, just to note btw.

How do I go about handling this chick?