Currently, in college. So there’s me, this girl (let’s call her Amy), and this other guy called Joe. Joe has had a crush on Amy for over a year now and has also been rejected by her but he keeps trying to hook up with amy. Over last 2 months I’ve spoken to Amy a bit back and forth, kinda in a flirty manner. So last week there was a house party. I go and talk to Amy (prior to this all her mates told me I had a chance etc, not that it means much). Now I spend like 2 hours talking to her in the party, wasn’t really a hook up type scene. I was touching her hand holding her hands doing all sorts of kino. She wasn’t very reactive but didn’t mind. (I was also very drunk which was bad, lesson learnt). Anyway, the conversation escalated and I told her I found her attractive / how much I like her (don’t worry wasn’t fully beta Male mode, but close lol) etc and she said “I like you too” but she was just so confused as she did not expect me to say this.

In the background to all of this, Joe is watching me and her flirt etc. After she is leaving to go home, joe takes her and talks about her. I heard my name being mentioned a few times. Not sure what was said.

She said she was into me at the party however I’m not sure if she felt pressurised by her friends and me into saying that.

She also texted me the next asking if arrived home safely etc and how I was.

I see joe talking to her a lot in and around college. Amy is quite a religious girl who hasn’t been with any guys before. Any idea what to do? Should I just msg her saying do you want to meet up / come over? Or is that too bold. (I hardly see her in college as we have no same classes btw).