I need to learn the basis of how to spark an interesting conversation. I know how to ask questions, but never know how to make it more than just an interview. Any sources for info?

HurricaneHugues · 2020-03-16T10:09:02+00:00

You're not an entertainer, relax. A conversation takes 2 people. A passionate and engaging conversation takes 2 passionate and engaging people. If the person you're talking to has nothing to say, then no matter what you do the conversation will get stale.

QuinlanBothese · 2020-03-16T06:52:18+00:00

Ask questions, then add something to their answers the conversation will start branching out from simple interview mode questions. When talking gauge your tonality for the wanted effect and almost never speak with a lifeless,dull , robot tonality.

NabroleonBonaparte · 2020-03-16T06:55:22+00:00

You’re already off to a bad start because you think interesting conversation is something you lack.

I can tell you haven’t been doing much work to make yourself “The Prize” because if you did, then interesting things would come out of your mouth and you would instead wonder where are the interesting women. Women are supposed to try to be interesting to you, not the other way around.

Work on becoming The Prize by getting cool hobbies that you could talk for hours about and then talk to women about all the cool shit you do.

lietruth · 2020-03-16T06:35:56+00:00

No quick magic pill you can take for being charismatic and interesting.

Read “How to win friends and influence people” to start with. “The like switch” is also a good start. Those books are both basic fundamentals. It all begins with internal frame though- that comes with time.

Charisma on Command has a few good videos on YouTube.

pjordanx · 2020-03-16T07:40:47+00:00

One episode of seinfield a day

Howdoiusesync · 2020-03-16T14:44:09+00:00

First 2 chapters in Day Bang.

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