Posted by an early 20's divorced single mom who just got engaged to future hubby #2. If she's not giving you sex, throw away your dignity, jump through flaming hoops, buy her shit, and maybe, just maybe, she'll think about it.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2020-03-21T00:08:12+00:00

"Ravish her heart first and maybe the rest will come..."

So invest my time, money, and effort into a relationship where I definitely won't be getting anything return. Right.

I'll just be moving on.

Fantastically_Inept · 2020-03-21T01:02:51+00:00

I don't negotiate with terrorists. So, if she uses sex and intimacy as a weapon, I'm f-in outta there.

2020-03-21T00:18:02+00:00

It’s best for both partners to do all of those things in a good relationship. However, being a top 20% man and running a little dread game is much easier than trying to spoil your way in to some pussy. If a man put the same amount of effort into himself that she is demanding he put into her, she wouldn’t be able to keep her hands off of him.

SpankKing_ · 2020-03-21T00:48:32+00:00

What a full time fuckin job. Lmao. What an ego on some of these girls. Needs a fucking job or something. Too much time thinking about dumb retarded shit

The-truth-hurts1 · 2020-03-21T00:56:38+00:00

Being a woman means you don’t need to do anything to fix a relationship.. it’s up to the man to do everything in his power in the hope of a few crumbs

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2020-03-21T14:16:37+00:00

Men,

If you find your sexual relationship isn't what it used to be - leave.

Just Walk Out.

You have worth and value, and your need for intimacy, closeness, love, sex, cuddles, safety, romance, bonding, trust, respect, oxytocin and dopamine are no less important than any of her needs.

Just Walk Out

... and find a woman who will respect your needs and just take care of them willingly and without having to be asked. Once you find such a woman, you will never expect less again.

Just Walk Out

And when you do, be sure to calmly, and without emotion, explain to your ex why you left. Repeat to her the bold statement above. Do this over the phone, and go NO CONTACT for at least one year.

Just Walk Out!!

If enough men do this, a small number (but a critical mass) of women will wake the fuck up and get it once and for all. Then it will have a chance of spreading over the next 3-5 generations.

Women will still be women, but the Good Men of the world will have much higher chance of having a fulfilling relationship in the future.

Do your part to make life good again for the Good Men!

#JustWalkOut

...if she ever EVER fucks around with your intimacy. This is a zero tolerance policy for me and my woman knows it. (For the knuckleheads out there: Of course not when she is ill or has period, etc. Use some judgment!)

It should be zero tolerance for you too.

If you do not have the courage to tell her this, then you - my friend - are in a toxic relationship.

Cristoff13 · 2020-03-21T05:23:00+00:00

If she's uninterested in sex: It must be his fault. He's "taking her for granted", i.e. not spending enough time and/or money on her. He's not doing household chores or looking after the kids enough. He's not lavishing enough non-sexual affection on her. etc. The poor women is under so much pressure to be sexual when she just doesn't want to. That's abuse!

If he's uninterested in sex: It must be his fault. Perhaps he has some medical problem he's neglecting, low testosterone maybe. Or he's "addicted at porn". According to many women, looking at porn even occasionally will shut down your interest in sex. The poor woman is being emotionally damaged by being denied affection. That's abuse!

Jr10101010 · 2020-03-21T01:10:09+00:00

Turn up the beta, then watch her cheat on you with Chad.

Gichboi · 2020-03-21T00:57:38+00:00

Honestly, i'd rather fuck a hoe, pay up and move on with life....

WereNotGonnaFakeIt · 2020-03-21T01:16:47+00:00

"Wait on me hand and foot and maybe I'll stoop to your level once a year"

Westernhagen · 2020-03-21T03:12:40+00:00

All the best advice for men about how to deal with women comes from women. 🤮🤮🤮

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-03-21T02:39:24+00:00

Exhausting. Even hos these days want to be romanced, its ridiculous

dwc151 · 2020-03-21T02:05:26+00:00

I tried all of that with my ex wife when she turned cold.Turned out all I would have had to do is make more money.

2020-03-21T04:17:22+00:00

Easier method #2.... If she gives you the cold shoulder, ask her about it, if no satisfactory resolution after a few days/a week then next her

SuperGoxxer · 2020-03-21T06:39:45+00:00

"Do a bunch of shit, and maybe sex but probably not... tee hee!"

Yeah, fuck yourself. I'd have a better shot with a stupid camgirl 500 miles away from me.

ThunderBloodRaven · 2020-03-21T09:04:44+00:00

So she thinks its the sole responsibilty of the man to fix everything in a relationship

NickTesla2018 · 2020-03-21T02:27:58+00:00

TMW = Too much work. Get a goldfish.

2020-03-21T04:28:29+00:00

And men, just in case you are tired, bored, unappreciated, minimized, and altogether neglected, shut the fuck up about it and work harder. You just a number in a mile long list of dangling dicks and she can find better instantly. She's the price after all. At least until 30/35 and a couple of fatherless kids. After that, it's open bar....on your dime.

2020-03-21T10:48:13+00:00

How is any of this worth it to men? You work all week and not only do you have to come up with fresh innovative ideas to entertain her you also have to entertain HER children as well.

And all for what? Star fish sex? How is any of this worth it?

MattyK414 · 2020-03-21T05:53:35+00:00

And this is my case for why I love sluts.

p3ngwin · 2020-03-21T07:17:49+00:00

"If you find your sexual relationship with her isn't what it used to be ......"

Followed by :

"Maybe that won't fix everything or even anything, but building up your partner is a good place to start in any relationship."

So which is it, a relationship that was already started, and later fizzled, or it's a new one that's "building-up" ?

Either way, it's the man's fault her libido is down.

I-am-the-lul · 2020-03-22T08:27:57+00:00

Women's advice to men can be summed up like this: "Be a better beta".

Twowaywhisper · 2020-03-21T15:15:16+00:00

Has she tried to fix anything herself at all? Blame it all on the guy for her own issues

2020-03-22T14:34:51+00:00

Women: if you find your emotional relationship with your man isn’t what it used to be, the fire has been low for a while, don’t try to turn it on with more emotional intimacy. This may work for women, but men pretty much just care about pussy. Haha no really, it’s true! All we care about is if you stay in shape and give up your pussy when we want it.

The end.

MotorBody77 · 2020-03-23T00:11:10+00:00

Flashlights are way cheaper, aren't they?

BluepillProfessor · 2020-03-23T06:32:19+00:00

marriage is like having a gun to your head 24/7, if you fuck up just a tiny bit by making her unhappppyyyyy, or boorrred, the trigger will be pulled. its such a fucking exhaustive thing

SirKolbath · 2020-03-24T19:06:35+00:00

"Tried that. Got divorced." - a metric shit ton of men.

BluepillProfessor · 2020-03-23T20:50:33+00:00

Does anyone else taste the bile?

Vbishen67 · 2020-03-21T01:00:44+00:00

No, this is true. This isn’t just a Where’s the good men thing. In my own case, I focused on my career and getting all the “things” and forgot the romance, and.after 10 years she left me for an old school flame. I was watching the pattern start again with my next wife, and did what she said above and it turned everything around. This one is just good advice... sorry.

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