I'm my original post, I mentioned my now ex LTR. I split up with her as I foresaw a life of misery ahead of us.
Today,whilst working from home,she let Herself in and proceeded to create a scene in front of my son. Told him it might be the last time he would see her and gave him gifts (chocolate egg and some drawing stuff)
She then came through when I was just coming out of the shower and tried to hug me. I told her she shouldn't have let herself in as it's a quarantine at the moment. She started kicking off,saying how she wanted to get her stuff and say a final goodbye. She left me a few gifts in my room. She promptly said goodbye. Left my key.
I felt fine but this is messing with my head slightly. My mum is on her side and thinks we should get back together. I'm second guessing myself which I know is dumb. She did some good for us. Yet the negativity I can't stomach,along with our now incomparable views and goals.
Any advice for getting myself out of this headspace?Should I send the gifts back?
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