We all talk about how inherently difficult it is for a woman to get commitment from a man she sexually desires (because chances are the man’s got options). The #1 and practically only solution given is that women should somehow “adjust” themselves to desire men without many options to explore. It is never discussed how women might be able to succeed at getting what they want. Probably because it’s hopeless, but for discussion’s sake:

How might a woman be able to get commitment from a desirable man? What would she need to do? Who would she need to be? And by “commitment”, I’m talking all the way: no secret cheating or flirting.

How might a woman be able to fulfill her imperative?