So I’ve got a substance abuse problem. Just don’t have the ability to moderate myself on a time to time based, and by the end of my drinking drug career I was just constantly fucked up my life was in the shits.

Got sober. 3 months ago. Life is good it’s on the ups. Really focused on pushing myself everyday to be the best me possible. Take it day by day but I can’t go back to drinking, i just become too self destructive.

Issue is, I do see the ideal version of myself having plenty of females in my life as many do. My game has def went down since I’ve gotten sober. Well, not during the end of my drinking career I was such a mess all I cared about was getting that next fix. But during the prime when I was functioning, the party atmosphere was good for me in that aspect.

I’ve had some luck with dating apps and what not, and I know this quarantine is a great opportunity to better myself away from everything. I’m asking if there’s any of y’all sober men who can live that playboy lifestyle, still milking the most out of life having fun going out partying and having plenty of options, while remaining sober.

A big part of my recovery has been rewiring my brain from my addict ways of thinking to sober ways. Issue is there’s not a lot of good advice regarding the female aspect.

Would appreciate any words thanks brothers