I hate my father. It's it something that needs fixing?

Fabulous-Craft · 2020-04-09T19:44:16+00:00

Hate and not caring are two different things.

I don't see a reason to hate the man for regurgitating the same blue pill nonsense most of us were brain washed with.

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-04-09T20:01:30+00:00

It's not worth it hating your father.

Mine isnt abusive or anything but hes basically drunk deadweight. Hes annoying if anything.

Honeslty ask yourself..."would I cry at his funeral?" If the answer is yes then you still care about him.

DrJamming · 2020-04-09T20:18:35+00:00

You should not hate him if he did it in good faith. There are ppl with monster fathers that beat, abuse, and belittle their children making them scarred for life. These types of fathers deserve the scorn.

Most regular men have neither proper knowledge nor balls to stand up to social programming and tell it to the kid for what it is. It's like telling them Santa Clause is not real. You'd be labeled a monster and an asshole for spilling the beans while the kid is small, and for most part it's exactly those kinds of fathers that would do it. That's why chicks dig criminals so much. Most of them are out of broken households where there is no blue pill, because brutal (often literally) reality of life leaves no room for imagination or interpretation of any bs.
They got their red pill the hard way.

A father that:

a) knows the score (red pill)

b) has the spine to not give in to social (and by extension the woman's) bullshit and keep the kid planted in reality.

c) and does the above for the sake of the kid and a strong father-child bond based on trust and truthfullness, and not just mauling the kid with reality cause his own life is shit

Well...that's a case one in a million. Don't blame your old man for not being the chosen one.

hoopingblob · 2020-04-09T20:22:19+00:00

I used to be just like you. Hated my old man for ruining my life but then I snapped and realized that it wasn't my old man. It was me. I ruined my life for not studying efficiently. For not working to get some side money and invest it somewhere. My fault for playing video games till 4 am because I thought that it will keep me distracted from my shitty life. FUCK THIS! I ain't doing this shit no more!

I forged a plan to get my degree and start studying. Later I go to a different country, open my own business with my degree, get money and invest all of it in real estate to get more money. I am still at stage 1 but I am getting there. Slowly I make my way to success. My previous motivation was to show the old man I am not a failure but now it's something way better than that. Freedom.

Once I achieved all of this (and I fucking will!) I will buy my freedom from society and the government. I will be free and in peace with myself.

Title	I hate my father. It's it something that needs fixing?
Author	ReasonablyGoodMexica
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	April 9, 2020 7:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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