My ex just wanted to be friends and I no contacted her

Prototype_Grendel · 2020-04-07T00:26:25+00:00

Because they can gain from it. They have a backup (or what they think is a backup) and they might still be able to manipulate rides, or money out of you.

Whereas as a dude, you break up and all you might get is a fuck buddy. Maybe. If she dumps you though, yeah, that probably wont happen.

Morb357 · 2020-04-07T01:21:10+00:00

Cut all ties. Trust me it's the best move for you not her. She want's a backup to monkeybranch back to when Chad dumps her ass. Don't be that guy.

SlainFunicle · 2020-04-07T01:25:43+00:00

cut her off and build yourself don't give her the time of day, she want to keep you around like a dog, After you build your self up and al the feeling is dead then you can treat her like a dog if you want but nothing more never be in a relationship it is not worth it fwb

silly_birb · 2020-04-07T07:48:59+00:00

Women want to keep being friends with exes because they biologically fear conflict.

The idea that she will have an ex that will not help her in times of needs just scares the shit out of them.

Thus if she can keep you as an ally she would gain double, +1 help -1 enemy.

HeavyMeringue · 2020-04-07T03:32:46+00:00

Dude, women don't have guts.You all need to realise this,after they extort you,they are going to keep you around just in case they need something from you.That is why I do not trust women I have been dicking around with.

PipBoyTInkerer · 2020-04-07T14:43:57+00:00

They want to be "friends" in the sense that they can salvage at least some of the boyfriend perks you provided during the relationship (at zero cost to them). Access to your social circles, maybe even favors done for her. Toss you into her beta orbiters club is the ultimate goal, but the'll take anything for free.

I dated a girl that cheated on me then treated me like shit. After dumping her, she wanted to be friends. I asked why (for my own amusement because I already knew about female nature).

She started listing off all the things I brought to the table. Hanging out with my friends. Some fun activities we did like wakeboarding, dinners with loads of people, or pool parties (most of which I organized myself). Not ONE thing she mentioned is what she brought to the table. So, I'd basically be giving her all the perks of the relationship while she's still free to fuck Chad guilt-free. Laughed at her, hung up, and blocked.

rayedward363 · 2020-04-07T04:44:08+00:00

They get something out of it. Could be as simple as attention, or in some cases they want to keep a foot in the door just in case their current "dating strategy" doesn't work out.

ftc1234 · 2020-04-07T05:55:05+00:00

You won the lottery and you have no idea. I wish this had happened to me in my 20s so that I could have become MGTOW before women could wreak havock in my life.

TigPlaze · 2020-04-07T21:32:43+00:00

Eject! If you're a military pilot, you have an ejection lever that you can pull if your plane is hit that shoots you out and then you parachute down to safety. You have that same ejection lever with women. Just eject and parachute down safely. You get away from her and GHOST her, then build up your life and heal without her.

plainnsimpleforever · 2020-04-06T23:43:00+00:00

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Title	My ex just wanted to be friends and I no contacted her
Author	grimdall
Upvotes	53
Comments	29
Date	April 6, 2020 11:40 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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