I need some advice

BruceWaynee2000 · 2020-02-12T01:56:00+00:00

Take a day off,eat the fuck out ur fav food,take a ride,go for a swim.You can't run of ur problems but u can deal with it...

_Mister-Awesome_ · 2020-02-12T02:41:32+00:00

Men, are you weak? Here are fives steps to help change that:

1 Do not seek praise. God knows the quality of your work. He sees all. Live for His praise. Seeking the praise of men (especially women) demonstrates weakness. Be known by the quality of your work. Let lips of another praise you.

Do not self-deprecate. Again, this demonstrates weakness. It shows you lack confidence. It rarely gains you anything. That being said, you should be able to laugh at yourself. A self-serious man is usually twice as a frail as the self-deprecater (though few realize this).
Do not complain. Men solve problems. They don’t whine about a situation. They create a solution with available resources (including prayer). Complaining solves nothing. It demonstrates weakness of resolve.
Do not make excuses. If you fail, own it. Own it completely. Men are leaders and leaders aren’t excuse-makers. Owning your failure demonstrates strength. Excusing it is a demonstration of weakness.
Do not break promises. If you say you’ll do something, do it. Do it no matter how hard it is to do. Untrustworthiness might as well be a synonym for weakness. Always under-promise and over-deliver.

Look, we all have and will continue to fail in these areas to a degree but with the aid of God's Spirit we can grow to be stronger and more virtuous man.

Father, make us more like your Son!

jamocadyn · 2020-02-12T02:44:43+00:00

Do some kind of sport--exercise is good for you and if it's a team sport there is your built-in "social club".

DannyTTT55 · 2020-02-12T03:51:06+00:00

You need to judge yourself by your own standard

If you're not earning enough money, is it because you are unhappy with how lazy you are, or is it because you are judging yourself based on societies and other people's standards

Think about what you would tell a hard working man born into poverty in a shit hole country. Would you treat him like shit because he was poor?

I personally would look at him and say, man, you work at least 10 times harder than I do, and your work ethic and resilience is far beyond me even though your circumstances don't allow you to out earn me

This is the way you need to start to speak to yourself. Start basing your success or failure on a standard you set for yourself to do and not the results of circumstance based on outside events or other people. Hope that makes sense

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-02-12T04:00:56+00:00

Remember to make time for yourself. Its easy to let work take over. I joined a brazilizn jiu jitsu club. Good blokes. Fitness good for your mind and learn a very good self defense system.

ReddiReaders · 2020-02-12T08:54:00+00:00

Buddy all you need to do is find something you enjoy, something that really makes you feel good. Exercising is probably the best thing I can think of. Keep your mind occupied, stay positive and focused. Think about your future and what you want out of life. Start heading towards that.

Title	I need some advice
Author	AIRMANG22
Upvotes	16
Comments	13
Date	February 12, 2020 1:47 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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